Monday, June 29, 2009
Why isn’t the Dalai Lama a heartthrob for the Theravada Buddhists?!
Dear Monk,
I am an Asian Buddhist grown up with a Theravada Buddhist background but have been living in the West for the last many years. One thing I noticed here is that whenever HH the Dalai Lama comes to the West, people go crazy. This is something I have not seen in Asian Buddhist countries. May be I am wrong but I don’t think his name is even known well in the Theravada Buddhist world. I often wonder why he isn’t a heartthrob for the Theravada Buddhists as he is for the West. Please explain.
By the way, I appreciate your attempt to answer questions of Buddhist interests! Keep it up.
Chamri
Dear Chamri,
Part of the answer to your inquisition lies in the premise that the Dalai Lama isn’t a heartthrob for the Theravada Buddhists as he is for the West perhaps because the message of ‘peace and non-violence’, credited to him by the West as his exclusive invention, is but a legacy the Theravada Buddhists have inherited and embedded in their hearts hundreds of years before the modern West has come into contact with it through HH the Dalai Lama. The Dalai Lama possesses nothing new which can throb the Theravada Buddhists’ hearts. However, a broader examination on this issue should be approached on three delicate aspects and complexities that make the Dalai Lama extremely not popular in the Theravada Buddhist world: religious, cultural and political.
Religiously, the Theravada Buddhists have inherited the form of Buddhism unanimously accepted by all Buddhist traditions to be the earliest, if not the original, which is believed to contain the actual words of the historic Buddha. The form of Buddhism, on the other hand, the Dalai Lama represents mostly originates from Indian Masters extending up to 10th century AD, which is more than a thousand years later than the historic Buddha. Therefore, in no way the Theravada Buddhists are willing to exchange their oldest Buddhist legacy with something that is publicly and historically accepted and proved to be of later origins. Avalokiteshvara, the bodhisattva of compassion of whom the Dalai Lama is believed to be a worldly manifestation, Ksitigarbha, the bodhisattva who resides in hells, Amitabha, the Buddha who rules the western paradise to name but a few are all alien to Theravada Buddhists so much so that they refuse to accept these ‘enlightened beings’, as it were, as essentially that of Buddhist. Even the very attribute of ‘living Buddha’ attached to the Dalai Lama comes to the Theravada Buddhists as extremely reserved. (Note that the office of Dalai Lama extends back not more than five hundred years which is, more or less, a modern invention and the Dalai Lama is attributed to be a manifestation of an enlightened Buddha on the basis of ‘newly found texts’ in Tibet). Buddhist history shows that Theravada was at loggerheads with Mahayana (Dalai Lama is a Mahayanist), a revolutionized Buddhist movement centuries after the Buddha’s demise. While Mahayana seems to have been very accommodating in its collection, composition, compilation and interpretation of Buddhist doctrines, Theravada remained to be the hardcore and orthodox form of Buddhism till today. Hence, if the Dalai Lama, a Mahayanist goes on a preaching tour to the Theravada Buddhist world that would certainly be seen as Mahayana evangelism which would ultimately do more harm than good to the historic fragile relationship that exists between Mahayana and Theravada. And certainly the Dalai Lama wouldn’t like himself to be seen as a Mahayana evangelist by his fellow Buddhists. The Theravada’s opposition to Mahayana evangelism is historical. In around the fifth century after Christ, Mahayana tried its first wave of evangelism in Sri Lanka but it was strongly opposed and was suppressed by its rival, the Mahavihara School which saw itself to be the sole guardian and defender of Theravada Buddhism. The Lankavatarasutra, one of the very important Mahayanist sutras is said to be written in Sri Lanka but it did not find its relevance there. Keeping in mind the historical opposition of the Theravada Buddhists to Mahayanist teachings, it is not beyond one’s understanding ‘why’ the Dalai Lama’s preaching tours and initiations would not be welcomed in present day Theravada Buddhist countries notably in Sri Lanka, Thailand and Burma, the hubs of Theravada orthodoxy. If you were to attribute the Dalai Lama’s popularity to his teachings, then surely he cannot be popular among the Theravada Buddhists because his kind of teaching of Buddhist doctrines, initiations and rituals are not accommodated in the shoe of the Theravada orthodoxy.
Culturally and geographically, huge differences exist in countries where Mahayana found its accommodation to countries where Theravada orthodoxy exists. Being itself very accommodating, the Mahayana changed and adopted its doctrines and particularly that of the Vinaya (rules guiding monks and nuns) to suit its particular cultural and geographical contexts. This has led to distinct differences in the way Theravada, Mahayana and Tibetan monks and nuns dress, behave and do chanting for example. Though outer appearance is never what one internally is, this can have a huge effect in a cultural context. For example, though Buddhists of Mahayana background may happily and comfortably don the Theravada monastic robe without much cultural hassles, the Buddhists with a Theravada background would find it extremely difficult to don Mahayana monastic robes to live in their native lands of Theravada orthodoxy. This is probably why you can not find a single native/local Mahayana monk in traditional Theravada countries whereas it is not that difficult to find local Theravada monks in traditional Mahayana countries. Now if the Dalai Lama is having local monk and lay disciples and followers in Theravada countries as he is having in the West, then surely there is no reason not to think why he wouldn’t be a heartthrob in the Theravada world as well. Worse still, given his accommodating nature and international adaptations, the Dalai Lama sees no cultural and even religious taboos in shaking hands and holding hands with women, worshipping lay people he meets in front, wearing hi-fi lay boots, wrist watch and the like. But these very things the Dalai Lama does in public are extremely important cultural and religious taboos a monk is prohibited to do in Theravada Buddhist countries. Knowing that in Thailand it is a cultural taboo for a monk to accept anything directly from a woman’s hands, a foreigner might not even imagine well enough how a Thai Buddhist would feel seeing the Dalai Lama (announced to be a monk) on TV screen walking holding hand in hand with a woman! Much more so when an average Theravada Buddhist sees the Dalai Lama (a Buddha?!) worshipping a group of western strangers! These are some of the cultural shocks which the Theravada orthodoxy would not be willing to compromise to accommodate in their cultural and religious contexts; and this is one of the very important factors why the Dalai Lama isn’t and cannot be a heartthrob for the Theravada Buddhist world.
The political role the Dalai Lama plays as ‘a simple Buddhist monk’ (a self definition often referred to by the Dalai Lama himself) is perhaps the highest level obstacle why he isn’t a heartthrob in the Theravada Buddhist world. The fact that the Dalai Lama plays a dual role of a politician and ‘a simple Buddhist monk’ makes it extremely difficult for a Theravada Buddhist to determine whether he is preaching ‘politics’ or ‘Buddhism’. When the Dalai Lama speaks, the question is: is he speaking as a politician or is he speaking as a simple Buddhist monk? The answer is complex to determine indeed but if he is speaking as ‘both’ then that would be a complete bizarre because ‘religion’ and ‘state’ are two separate things, a policy strictly followed in the Theravada Buddhist world. But however, given the extensive publicity of his political involvement in the Tibet issue as a temporal head, he becomes a politician in the eyes of the Theravada Buddhists. To make the matter worse, China has been carrying out a media and diplomatic propaganda against the Dalai Lama branding him as ‘a separatist’, ‘a cunning politician (using religion as a cover)’, ‘a wolf disguised as a monk’ (political titles conferred and added to the already long list of religious titles of the Dalai Lama by China) so on so forth. The fact that China has immense political influence in South and Southeast Asia makes this propaganda extremely successful because whenever the Dalai Lama arranges a pilgrimage to Buddhist holy places in the Theravada Buddhist world, communist China steps in. No matter how genuine is his wish to visit such pilgrimage sites as ‘a simple Buddhist monk’, the Buddhists in those countries are made to believe that he is a politician and should not be allowed into the country in question for fear of angering giant friend – China. The recent news of Sri Lanka vetoing a proposed visit to the country by the Dalai Lama is an example. The Sri Lankan monks were criticized by critiques for not rallying in support of the proposed visit by the world’s most well known Buddhist monk in their Buddhist country. But obviously, in a war torn country where monks rally in support of government struggle to defeat what they term as Tamil ‘separatism’, it was practically not welcoming for the monks there to see a monk politician (i.e. the Dalai Lama) who has been fighting for that same purpose albeit with a different terminology used – ‘cultural genocide’ (term used by the Dalai Lama). In fact, Sri Lankan monks opposed his proposed visit for comments made by him earlier urging the Sri Lankan Buddhist government to exercise restraint in the final phase of the Tamil issue while failing to comment on the Tamil Tigers suicide missions on innocent civilians. Likewise, the Dalai Lama is most unlikely to get to visit any other Theravada country such-as Thailand or Burma because a visit by such a controversial politician-cum-monk personality is simply unwelcomed by the people there, so to speak.
Considering the above, we can safely assume that the people and the governments in Theravada Buddhist countries simply avoid effective contact and communication with the Dalai Lama either because they don’t want to cut their own legs (by angering China) or because he is no need for them, be it religious or be it political purposes. Or it can be both.
Now the answer to your question would be incomplete if the Monk doesn’t answer the question: why is the Dalai Lama a heartthrob for the West?
Perhaps you should know that the Dalai Lama is ‘world’s most well known Buddhist monk’ (leveled by the Western Media) not because he is ‘a simple Buddhist monk’ but because he is a politician as well who is at war with China, a giant state with rapid economic and military buildup (the Dalai Lama himself attributed his international popularity for his political involvement with China). Some Western people needed the Dalai Lama to meet their genuine spiritual quest for inner peace; and with his openness and broadmindedness, the Dalai Lama succeeded in attracting a large western converts and followers including some well known celebrities, an Buddhist achievement every Buddhist must be proud of but the most conspicuous urgency for the longsighted West was to find a card to play against the ever growing China. And the Dalai Lama is the perfect card for them. Believe it or not, there are other Buddhist monks who can be equal to the Dalai Lama in aspect of wisdom and compassion but they are not well known beyond their respective followers because they don’t play politics in the world’s arena. If you have noticed one thing carefully, you would have noticed that the Western media is keener on the Dalai Lama’s attacks on China than his actual words on Buddhism. Weeks of teaching to a group of monks and nuns by the Dalai Lama would not get media publicity but a single word falling off his mouth directed towards China would be picked up by the western media with no much delay. If he said ten sentences on Buddhism and one sentence on China, what would get media attention is that one sentence attacking China. This is a fact. If you think the Monk is exaggerating, then browse at the Western media coverages and see yourself how many actual words on Buddhism you can find other than columns after columns elaborating on the kind of accusations the Dalai Lama is quoted to have made against China. It is not the western people who actually go crazy about the Dalai Lama (apparently because of his ‘Buddhist’ teachings); it is the Western media (with no apparent interest on Buddhism) who crazes the Western people. After all, remember the philosophy of mass media: publicity stunt and news sensationalisation.
The Western media sensationalizes things by calling the Dalai Lama with names and titles even they are not familiar with. ‘Buddhist leader’, ‘Buddhist pope’ and even the very media introduction of him as ‘the most well known Buddhist monk’ seems for non-Buddhists as if the Dalai Lama is ‘THE BUDDHIST POPE’, an idea which is completely ridiculous and incongruous by average Buddhist standard. Though the Dalai Lama has come to be known as the Tibetan Buddhist leader, representing perhaps only 10-15% of Buddhists of the world, strictly speaking, he is not even a leader of any of the four Buddhist sects of Tibetan Buddhism but he is the Tibetan Buddhist leader by his virtue of being the temporal head of Tibetan people. This is something the Western media misses out.
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Tuesday, June 23, 2009
THE MONK ANSWERS ANNA !
Dear Monk,
Would you be kind enough to answer my following questions?
1. I’d love to know the vows a monk takes. I’m not sure if they are secret though? I know they are many and would love to know each one!
2. Do all monks want to become monks when they start out? Is it mainly a parent’s decision - do children naturally not question parents’ decisions...many questions in this one!?
3. In Tibetan Buddhism, some monks are identified at a young age as re-incarnations of great teachers (i.e. The Dalai Lama) - is this common amongst all the Buddhist traditions?
4. Some monks use begging bowls - how prevalent is this? If it is still practiced what is the feeling/understanding/sense (I’m not referring to the thinking behind it - but the actual experience of the individual) - I’d imagine this too would vary from individual to individual.
5. How many monks have teachers in the sense of a Guru? I would love to know something about such a relationship - especially in the context of a monastery where there are many students. And this gives rise to something I heard recently - when we have teachers we connect with - the likelihood is high that there was a connection in a previous life. Is this seen to be the case?
Anna
Dear Anna,
First of all, the Monk didn’t receive your questions directly from you. Someone (name withdrawn) has forwarded them to the Monk’s email account. However the Monk would like to extend credits to the original person who asked these questions and that is ‘you’ mainly because he also personally finds these questions interesting. Second of all, the Monk received a total of eleven questions (apparently all from you), but the Monk has decided to answer only five – the questions that entail greater importance. Please keep in mind that the Monk’s views would mostly reflect the standpoint of Theravada Buddhism – the form of Buddhism unanimously regarded by all Buddhist traditions as the ‘earliest’, if not the original, form of Buddhism. There can be certainly other approaches to these questions, sometimes may be completely contradictory but that is the beauty of Buddhism. Hereby the Monk tries to answer them in order:
1. I’d love to know the vows a monk takes. I’m not sure if they are secret though? I know they are many and would love to know each one!
To begin with, your doubt is right: ‘vows’ (the term you used) a monk takes are secret in the sense that they are not really supposed to be ‘recited’ in front of or together with lay people and novice monks (note that novice monks are also left out). A novice monk is also left out because he is not a full fledged monk (a full fledged monk must be at least 20 years old). A novice takes only 10 precepts or vows, if you like (google ‘The Buddhist Ten Precepts’ and you would get them). Elsewhere, the Buddha is recorded to have said that a person, lay or monk, should be ‘vinayo ca susikkhito’, a phrase which means one needs to be ‘well educated of the Vinaya’ (vinaya being the ‘vows’!!!). But unfortunately later generations of orthodox monks altered the understanding of this phrase and stated that ‘vinaya’ has two types – one for monastic monks and the other for lay (the Monk won’t mention the lay vows here because that wasn’t a part of your question). So, according to the reading of those orthodox monks, a lay should not bother with the ‘monastic vows’ whereas a monk is free to learn and preach the lay vows. But that does not prevent anyone from knowing what the monastic vows are, so to speak. Today is an open world; nothing can be hidden. Esoteric teaching is strictly supposed to be not revealed to general people but today even a school child can read a book on esoteric Buddhism in a library or on a click of a mouse! Anyway, carefully note the above paraphrase used ‘not…to…be…recited’. Verily, ‘not to be recited’ is different from ‘not…to…be…known’. This means monastic vows, as it were, can be known by anyone anywhere including you (as a matter of fact, in traditional monastic institutions, you cannot find a lay teacher teaching a class on the Monastic ‘vows’, no matter how competent he is). Before proceeding further on, the Monk would like to make a point here. The term ‘vow’ is not used by all Buddhist traditions (for convenience sake, know that academically Buddhism is popularly divided into two: Southern and Northern. The former refer to Theravada Buddhism found in South and Southeast Asia and the latter refers to Mahayana including Tibetan Buddhism found in the Northeast and Himalayan regions). Vow is popularly used by Northern Buddhism. The Southern Buddhism uses the term ‘sikkhapada’ which is a prakrit-pali word meaning ‘training factor’. Now it would depend on how one understands these two terms ‘vow’ and ‘training factor’ (the Monk would like to evade this issue). Generally, the Buddhist Bible (used here for familiarization) consists of three divisions, one of which is called ‘The Book of Monastic Discipline’ (the word used for that is ‘vinaya’). This Vinaya text contains some of the earliest monastic injunctions laid down by the historic Buddha himself and are commonly accepted by all the Buddhist traditions. The ‘Dos and Don’ts’ containing in this Vinaya text are the primary ‘vows’ (to use your term again) that a monk takes at the time of his ordination. As far as the Monk is aware, the term ‘vow’ is broader which includes aspirations and vows of other superior beings called bodhisattvas, other than the historic Buddha. Since it would take pages after pages to list and explain all the vows, some of which seem mystical and fairy tales, the Monk would only limit the discussion to the primary text mentioned above, the text where historic Buddha’s injunctions are listed. You might call them whatever you like – vows, training factors, disciplinary rules, commandments or injunctions but their relevance and purpose remains the same. The Vinaya text contains a total of 227 monastic vows or rather training factors (strictly speaking only 220, the other seven being just ‘ways of settling down monastic disputes’) which a newly baptized monk ‘undertakes to abide by’ as long as he remains a monk. Note the flexibility of the initiation process: ‘undertakes to abide by’. It is not so much as implanting these 227 vinaya rules into the sub-consciousness of the newly baptized monk. This is the very reason why the Monk finds it uncomfortable to use the term ‘vows’ because vows are more of like ‘implanting’ into someone’s sub-consciousness. The Monk prefers not to go into each of the 227 vinaya rules here as you wanted, not because they contain something very secret but because majority of them are simply manners and behavioral patterns like ‘not eating like a pig (pig is added by the Monk to refer to the ‘eating’ making lots of sound with the mouth)’, ‘not entering the living quarter of a lay person without prior notice (apparently to avoid embarrassment to the person if he is on the bed with someone)’, ‘nor urinating standing’ (but monks find it difficult to abide by this simple but troublesome rule; so, many monks just release themselves standing), ‘not to give blows to fellow monks’, ‘not to travel alone with a woman (for obvious reason)’…the list go on. These are many of the minor rules, the breach of which can be got away lightly. But there are four very serious rules any monk cannot break under any circumstances. By ‘very serious’ the Monk means any monk found guilty of these four rules or vows is to be expelled from the Monastic Community. Such a monk is termed as ‘defeated’ and he can no longer become a full fledged monk in this entire life. Such a ‘defeated’ monk is compared to a fallen leaf which cannot be placed back to its original place, or the chopped off head of a man who cannot be revived. These four serious vows are (the Monk is putting them in positive sequence, which means if a monk does any one of them he is defeated):
1. to have sex (commentary: heterosexual, bisexual, homosexual, lesbian, oral, anal sexual activities with humans or animals are to be avoided)
2. to steal (commentary: taking what is not given from an inhabited area or from the wilderness) – this is the most complex rule in the Vinaya text to define its execution exactly
3. to kill a human being (commentary: deprive a human being of life, or search for an assassin for him, or praise the advantages of death, or incite him to die) and
4. to falsely claim sainthood.
Different traditions may prescribe different set of vows but these are the four primary vows that monks of all traditions undertake to abide by as long they remain as monks.
There are further twelve second most serious vinaya vows, the breach of which entails, not expulsion, but congregational confession and probation. Interesting of them are ‘intentional emission of semen via masturbation’, ‘seductive bodily contact with a female’, ‘flirting with a woman’, ‘back biting’, ‘making schism in the monastic community’ and so on.
Please log on to www.accesstoinsight.org (stroll down the section titled ‘Vinaya Pitaka’) for more details and the complete list of the 227 ‘vows’ you want to know. The Monk would like to end this answer here because at the click of a mouse, you can find a better answer than this. If you are lazy (for lack of a better term) or have no time to find it out yourself, do let the Monk know; he will just copy and paste them here or you.
But let the Monk elaborate a bit on the practical aspect of these vows. At the early part of Buddha’s teaching career, there was no smell of these 227 rules. Apparently it was a custom of the Buddha to gather his monks once a fortnight and recite a single verse to remind them of their purpose of becoming monks: ‘do no evil, do skilful, purify your mind – this is the teaching of all Buddhas’. This original verse later gave rise to the present 227 rules because of misconduct of monks. Today, the traditional recitation of these 227 vows once a fortnight by the monastic community (belonging to the Southern tradition) still exists particularly in the forest tradition whose monks adhere to more ascetic like practices. And this kind of official recitation is the one that is secret, the term used at the beginning. Practically, apart from the four serious vows, many of the other rules are out of date – they hardly fit into the 21st century world. The Monk personally thinks that vows like – ‘not doing job, not handling money, not driving, no entertainment’ etc. etc. don’t just fit into the modern world. Yes, it is true that a monk is supposed to renounce every such worldly affair but the other side of the truth is to ask the question: is it really possible for a city monk to survive without handling money, for example? Analyzing the flexibility of Buddhist teachings of wisdom and compassion (apart from disciplinary vows), it would certainly be foolish for lay Buddhists to demand that all monks live in the forest like bats and owls and never come out to mingle with worldly affairs. The Monk believes this was a historic dilemma for the monks themselves too. To keep a balance therefore, the monks were wise and receptive enough to divide the Monastic Community into two groups: forest and town. Probably this is what made Buddhism survive till today. If you are in need of a long forest retreat, go to the forest monks. They are the qualified monks to help you achieve inner peace and harmony. But if you want to stir up your brains, then you should meet academic town monks who are highly qualified to confuse you with all kinds of complicated Buddhist philosophies and puzzles. But what is now interesting is that often a forest monk blames and criticizes a city monk accusing him of ‘only talking’ whereas Buddha’s teaching is all about ‘practicing’. The city monk also does not keep quiet. He is also always ready to blame the forest monks for ‘neglecting’ the welfare of the general people who need spiritual help, guidance and answers to their worldly problems. The debate goes on but to jump into its conclusion, it would not be wrong to say that both sides have monks stupid enough to blame and criticize the other side when in actual sense, both the sides are needed for the longevity of Buddhism.
2. Do all monks want to become monks when they start out? Is it mainly a parent’s decision - do children naturally not question parents’ decisions...many questions in this one!?
If you have known that children as little as four years old are baptized as Buddhist monks, you might not have asked whether children questioned their parents’ decision or not, because obviously such a little child would have no rational maturity to question like that, though of course he will be there to cry when his parents leave him behind in the temple cells (the Monk himself cried when he was left behind…). Perhaps, and it is true that when they become older, some of them might question their parents’ decision and might even accuse them of dumping them into a different world. Here is such a case: http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/china/2009-06/17/content_8294870.htm. Though the Monk has answered a similar question in a previous blog post ‘10 Qs for a monk’, let the Monk touch this point a bit differently. Though it is a requirement to get parents’ consent before becoming a monk, parents don’t always play the major role particularly if the boy or the man in question decides to be a monk himself. But by looking at the family and social backgrounds of majority of monks in traditional Buddhist countries, the Monk believes that if they were given another option in life, they would have certainly avoided the option of becoming monks. For example, it is uncommon to see the children of rich families becoming monks because they have other options to crave for. Younger children of economically weak families may, sometimes, be forced by parents or simply by family economic situations to join the monastic community because it would provide them with food and most importantly a better opportunity for education. Such children, as time passed by, may get used to the lifestyle of a monk. If the senior monks somehow manage to brainwash (for lack of a better word) them, then such children may continue their lives as monks till the end. But unfortunately, statistics show that majority of them disrobe once they finish their education and are sure to get some sort of employment. Despite the high rate of disrobing, the Monastic Communities in different Buddhist countries remain filled mainly because ‘incoming’ is equal to the ‘outgoing’ rate. Hence, nowadays monasteries and temples have turned out to be kind of temporary shelters for the poor to stand up in societies. It is also very natural that such younger novice monks may prefer a monastic life to the kind of life they might have led, which would have been mostly consisted of looking after buffaloes, working in the fields, looking after younger siblings and the like. Initially they might resist, but once they manage to cross a few weeks in monkhood, they are most likely to be attracted by the kind of respect, care and good facilities they are provided with in the monasteries by temple devotees. But as they grow, their needs also grow – differently.
Some other such children might not have liked their parents leaving them behind in temple cells but as they grow, they might start taking life seriously, learning Buddhist doctrines and meditating which then would prepare them for a bright future as Monastic heads, temple abbots and high ranking monks – positions many monks can dream of.
But obviously the situation in economically developed countries is a total contrast. In such countries like Korea and Japan, it is not very common to find large number of children spending their playful days as monks studying books written hundreds of years ago. Monks (mostly in their 20s) from such countries including Europe and America are most likely to have entered monkhood through their sheer will and plan. And majority of such monks are to be found in meditation centers and retreats or in academic monastic institutions because that is the very purpose of their becoming monks. Unfortunately, believe it or not, such monks are also most likely to be fame-conscious. After spending few months learning and practicing meditation, they might declare themselves as so-called ‘meditation masters’ – a very serious trend that needs to be checked out by the Western monks themselves. Not only monks, even Western so-called Buddhists have distorted Buddhism by writing books on Buddhism after attending few classes on Buddhism. Their intention must have been for the good but the result has done more harm than good. Therefore, the Monk’s request to such people is: please don’t try to take our positions in the name of helping us propagate Buddhism. You have as much to learn from us Asians as we have to learn from you Westerners. No doubt, you people are more intelligent, more scientific so to speak but our long years of monastic studies, training, practice, faithfulness and familiarity with our Buddhist cultures and traditions should not be taken as mere empty seashells.
[An interesting reference for this particular answer would be the small book entitled ‘‘Little Angels’’ by Phra Peter Pannapadipo (an English Theravada monk in Thailand). It’s a handy booklet which records a dozen of emotional, heart-rending and educative life stories of little novices in Thailand. The book was published in the UK by Arrow Books in 2005. The monk is having a scanned copy of the book. Anybody wanting a copy for personal reading can contact the monk. Fore warned: the book carries copyright. Take your own risk]
3. In Tibetan Buddhism, some monks are identified at a young age as re-incarnations of great teachers (i.e. The Dalai Lama) - is this common amongst all the Buddhist traditions?
If a direct answer serves your question right, then it would be ‘NO’. Even the very idea of reincarnation is not found particularly in the Scriptures of the Southern tradition. Though justifications and rationalizations can be put forward in support of the concept of reincarnation as an authentic Buddhist concept, it was merely a later invention – a concept originating in Tibet hundreds of years after the demise of the historic Buddha in India. Such a concept is also not to be found in the Chinese Buddhist tradition. Refer to the lineage of Chan (Zen) patriarchs in China, which was very much similar to the Dalai Lama lineage but historically the succeeding Chan patriarch was chosen by the preceding patriarch which continued until the 6th greatest of all patriarchs – Master Hui Neng. Surely they could have also incorporated such a reincarnation concept into the hierarchy of the patriarchs but they must have seemingly avoided introducing such a new concept, probably because it would raise more serious questions regarding the fundamental Buddhist tenets of impermanence and soullessness than answer the very question of rebirth. The Monk personally finds it ridiculous to accept the concept of reincarnation in support of rebirth. People have been fascinated and simply started accepting the belief in rebirths as true because the Dalai Lama, a living Buddha, the so-called bodhisattva of compassion reincarnates! Certainly this is not ‘why’ we believe in rebirths (the Monk would not go into the discussion of rebirths here because it is not a part of the original question). However, honestly the Monk has no idea what and how the Tibetan Buddhists explain ‘reincarnation‘without undermining the fundamental Buddhist tenets of impermanence and soullessness. But the Dalai Lama’s personal admission that some of the previous Dalai Lamas were wrongly recognized indicates that perhaps the Tibetan concept of ‘reincarnation’ has been widely misunderstood and misinterpreted as ‘the same Dalai Lama coming again and again’. Further evidence in support of this hypothesis is the recent incident of an Irish boy, being recognized by high ranking Lamas including the Dalai Lama himself as a reincarnated Lama, disrobed and started blaming the Buddhists for making him undergo the ordeal of nightmares living in dark cells of monasteries secluded away from the outside world http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/china/2009-06/17/content_8294870.htm Anyway, your very question that some monks are identified at a young age as reincarnations of GREAT TEACHERS (the emphasis belongs to the Monk) is not consistent with history because, to say the least, not all Dalai Lamas have been great! The last point is the Monk strongly believes that any normal child could be trained to be like the Dalai Lama if he is also given the kind of training, teaching and facilities as are due to the training of a Dalai Lama or any other such so-called incarnated souls.
The idea of searching for reincarnations of ‘enlightened beings’ (Tibetan incarnated Lamas are considered as enlightened beings) has no support from, at least, the Southern Buddhist Scriptures. A southern Buddhist may find it ridiculous to go after this idea because it is an undeniable recording that the historic Buddha (here the Monk is not talking about mystic bodhisattvas, beings Tibetans respect more) has categorically defined ‘enlightenment’ as ‘cut off is the chain of re-becoming, done what has to be done and there is no further births’. According to this reckoning, an ‘enlightened being’ has no more ‘re-becomings’! Note the term used – ‘re-becoming’ rather than the term ‘reincarnation’. The problem of reincarnation seems to the Monk like the problem of ‘egg<>chicken’ (the egg comes out of the chicken or the chicken comes out of the egg) while the issue of re-becoming is more like the question of milk<>curd<>butter<>ghee. The fundamental issue of Buddhist rebirths is to ask whether the present state of ghee is the same as the original state of milk or different from it; and this is to ask the same question ‘Is the present Dalai Lama the same as the previous Dalai Lama or will the future Dalai Lama be the same as the present Dalai Lama’. The right answer to this problem has been clearly spelt out in the Buddhist Scriptures as ‘neither-nor’ relationship. If the issue of the ‘Dalai Lama reincarnation’ is to be looked at from this angle, then the Monk is willing to accept the idea of reincarnation as essentially that of Buddhist rebirth. Yet, the question still remains as to whether such a reincarnated individual (i.e. the Dalai Lama) is indeed ‘enlightened’ or not, because ‘enlightenment’ in the sense of what the southern Buddhists understand is ‘no rebirths’. However, if the idea of great compassion is inserted to justify the rebirths of enlightened beings such-as the Dalai Lama, the bodhisattva of compassion, then the Monk thinks the greatest of all ‘reincarnations’ would be that of the historic Sakyamuni Buddha’s. But obviously, the reincarnation of the historic Buddha is out of the question. Does it, then, mean to say that the present Dalai Lama is more compassionate than the historic Buddha??? Perhaps, the Dalai Lama can answer this question better than the Monk.
4. Some monks use begging bowls - how prevalent is this? If it is still practiced what is the feeling/understanding/sense (I’m not referring to the thinking behind it - but the actual experience of the individual) - I’d imagine this too would vary from individual to individual.
A begging bowl is one of the prerequisites for a monk at the time of his ordination. A newly baptized monk is instructed on the four serious vows (mentioned in Q. no.1) and on four supports which includes ‘begging one’s own food with a bowl’, ‘wearing rag-robes’, ‘living under a tree’ and ‘using fermented urine as medicine’. Do you think these four supports are austere enough for a monk?! Well, they are as austere as hell. But don’t get the impression that every monk you see now follows them, certainly not THE MONK you are meeting online. Obliviously, a monk going begging with a bowl wearing rag-clothes in European cities would get arrested under vagrancy laws; a monk living in NYC cannot possibly find a tree to sleep under!; and a monk drinking his own urine for medical purposes while living in towns (where hospitals are available) sounds stupid (though Mahatma Gandhi is supposed to have drunk his own urine to stay healthy!!!). These so-called four supports are to be looked at from practical point of view; not simply following them just because one is a monk. But to the Buddhist credit, the group of forest monks (based in Asian Buddhist countries), mentioned in the answer to the first question above, does still, more or less, keep to these four supports. But to specify your question of the ‘bowl’; the percentage of monks (both forest and town) using a bowl to take one’s food in stationed monasteries (rather than begging with it) is comparatively higher than the other three supports. By the way, the age-old tradition of going public for alms round with bowls can still and only be found in Thailand and Burma (though forest monks in other Buddhist countries may also do the same). The using of bowls among Tibetan and Mahayana monks (Chinese, Korean, Japanese, and Vietnamese) is extremely rare, not absent though. The kind of ‘feeling/understanding/sense’ a monk is supposed to derive when using a begging bowl to take his food is recorded in the Monastic Book of Discipline as follows:
"Properly considering alms food, I use it: not playfully, nor for intoxication, nor for putting on weight, nor for beautification; but simply for the survival and continuance of this body, for ending its afflictions, for the support of the chaste life, (thinking) I will destroy old feelings (of hunger) and not create new feelings (from overeating). Thus I will maintain myself, be blameless, and live in comfort."
Whether an average monk does really get this sort of contemplative understanding remains to individual mind-development. But what is certain is that not every monk begs his food and eats from his bowl. But if you insist on the actual experience of the individual who eats from a begging bowl, then you got to try it yourself. A couple of actually feelings most likely would be: firstly, once a begging bowl is forced into your hands, you cannot help feeling that you are a beggar, you don’t exist as a valued person. Secondly, you can never get the real taste and enjoyment of food if you are eating from a bowl because all the stuff would be poured into your single holed-up bowl where sour, bitter, sweet, hot, spicy and cold rice and curries would get mixed up. At your first swallow, you are most likely to vomit out, especially if you are very choosy with foods (when Buddha first became a monk from a prince, he also almost vomited by just having a glimpse of the kinds of mixed up food holed up into his clay bowl; you cannot probably imagine the kind of feeling a prince would get if he was offered such mixed up food). However, the Monk thinks that the original purpose of using a bowl to beg and eat was not kind of deriving feelings from the bowl as such. The using of a bowl during the sixth century before Christ in primitive India was essentially a practical thing to do for a religious mendicant such as a Buddhist monk. A religious mendicant at the time was compared to a bird which flies anywhere easily without the burden of carrying tons of stuff. Carrying all sorts of spoons, forks, chopsticks, plates, pots, glasses, cups, jars and the like was simply not an option for a bird-like mendicant. So, the easiest and the most practical option was to carry a simple bowl that you can use to collect your food and eat to survive for the pursuit of the kind of spirituality you have become a monk for.
This particular issue of a bowl reminds the Monk of something happened decades ago. When the first group of Western monks, trained in the forest traditions in Asia, went back to the West on a preaching mission, many people there wondered whether Western people could really afford to look after these forest monks. And somebody apparently did an account to know how much it would cost to look after a single monk. Surprisingly they found out that it actually was much cheaper to look after a monk than it was to look after a dog!!! The similarity between a monk and a dog is both of them eat out of bowls in which everything is poured into. So, the logic was that every western family should have a monk at their backyards!
5. How many monks have teachers in the sense of a Guru? I would love to know something about such a relationship - especially in the context of a monastery where there are many students. And this gives rise to something I heard recently - when we have teachers we connect with - the likelihood is high that there was a connection in a previous life. Is this seen to be the case?
Well, theoretically and practically every monk has a ‘teacher’ but the Monk is not very sure what you exactly understand by the term ‘Guru’. Let the Monk quote the very word of the historic Buddha as found in the Monastic Book of Discipline:
‘‘Monks, I allow a preceptor. The preceptor will foster the attitude he would have toward a son ('son-mind') with regard to the student. The student will foster the attitude he would have toward a father ('father-mind') with regard to the preceptor. Thus they — living with mutual respect, deference, and courtesy — will arrive at growth, increase, and maturity in this Dhamma-Vinaya’’.
If you understand this statement in its intended sense regarding teacher-student or guru-disciple relationship, then you would see no possible difference between a teacher and a guru. Please keep in mind that by ‘teacher’ the Monk does not mean the kind of teacher you can find teaching geography or history in a school class. In Buddhist context, guru (used mostly in the Tibetan tradition), teacher/preceptor (used in the Theravada tradition) and/or master (used in the Chinese tradition) essentially refer to the same person.
In the Tibetan and Chinese traditions, the disciple’s absolute faith and submission to the Guru/Master is an essential part of the initiation process, so much so that in the Tibetan tradition they have four refuges – Guru, Buddha, Dharma and Sangha (note the foremost position given to the Guru). This requires the disciple to solely depend on the Guru’s mercy and guidance for his enlightenment, so to speak. Since the Tibetan initiation of guru-disciple relationship can take separate vows and promises, the Monk is not very sure how many Tibetan monks do have such connections with recognized Gurus (mostly incarnated Lamas).
The second part of your question is also not specified; the Monk is not sure whether you want to know something about teacher-student relationship in the context of a Theravada monastery, a Tibetan monastery or a Mahayana monastery, because each of these traditions has its own ways of teacher-student relationship. But for answer sake, let the monk briefly tell you a typical teacher-student relationship that goes on in the Southern monastic set-up.
In the ordination process of the Southern Buddhist tradition, a monk candidate is presented with two high ranking, competent monks of not less than ten years of monastic standing (mostly selected by the candidate himself) who would be his legal and official Upajjhaya, a term meaning ‘preceptor’ and Acariya, a term meaning ‘teacher’. The job of the preceptor is to lead the ordination ceremony and to be a guide to the newly ordained monk in matters of monastic disciplines through out his monastic life, whereas the job of the teacher is to teach the newly ordained monk the points of Buddhist doctrines and philosophies. But in actual practice, usually a single high ranking, competent and educated monk acts as both preceptor and teacher. In the Southern Buddhist tradition, the relationship between the teacher and the student may not be and does not required to be very profound and abiding because he does not depend on a single teacher for enlightenment, so to speak. Secondly, neither majority of monks do target ‘enlightenment’ nor is it common to find known and recognized enlightened teachers. Thirdly majority of monks become monks to get an education that would prepare them for a living (for want of a better term). Hence, they would depend on school and university teachers to pass exams and get certificates than on a committed guru/teacher for ‘enlightenment’. This is to say, not majority of monks do have a COMMITTED TEACHER, as the Monk puts it. If you hear a modern monk talking about his ‘teacher’, most likely he is his ‘teacher’ because that ‘teacher’ is supporting him with financial and material helps for his education just like a father spending for his son’s education. And this is the modern version of the Buddha’s statement quoted at the beginning that a teacher should be ‘father-minded’ and a student should be ‘son-minded’.
In a monastery where there are many students, not all students there are students of the head monk of that particular monastery. Different students may have different ‘teachers’ (in the sense of what has just been said); it is most likely that they are there either because it is a residential monastic educational institution or because it is a monastic hostel. But in a very rare case, a modern highly educated and rich monk may have many monk students in a single monastery mainly because he can pay for their education. The students’ relationships with the teacher may not be so much spiritual as it is for financial.
A modern well known vipassana meditation guru mostly coming out of Burma may have hundreds of students from different countries but he is only their guru/teacher so long as he leads a meditation retreat for them for a certain periods of time. The conclusion is in the Southern Buddhist tradition, an abiding committed relationship between a teacher and student for the keen pursuit of enlightenment is extremely rare.
The third part of your question is something to do with the Buddhist concept of karma. Well, it’s not only with teachers, karma is said to be an essential component of ‘why’ we have the kind of parents here and now, the kind of country we are born in to, the kinds of friends and relatives we strongly relate to, so on and so forth. It is much more so with the right kind of connection one may have with the right kind of teacher for the keen pursuit of enlightenment.
Got any question? Write to the Monk at askthemonk@hotmail.com
Would you be kind enough to answer my following questions?
1. I’d love to know the vows a monk takes. I’m not sure if they are secret though? I know they are many and would love to know each one!
2. Do all monks want to become monks when they start out? Is it mainly a parent’s decision - do children naturally not question parents’ decisions...many questions in this one!?
3. In Tibetan Buddhism, some monks are identified at a young age as re-incarnations of great teachers (i.e. The Dalai Lama) - is this common amongst all the Buddhist traditions?
4. Some monks use begging bowls - how prevalent is this? If it is still practiced what is the feeling/understanding/sense (I’m not referring to the thinking behind it - but the actual experience of the individual) - I’d imagine this too would vary from individual to individual.
5. How many monks have teachers in the sense of a Guru? I would love to know something about such a relationship - especially in the context of a monastery where there are many students. And this gives rise to something I heard recently - when we have teachers we connect with - the likelihood is high that there was a connection in a previous life. Is this seen to be the case?
Anna
Dear Anna,
First of all, the Monk didn’t receive your questions directly from you. Someone (name withdrawn) has forwarded them to the Monk’s email account. However the Monk would like to extend credits to the original person who asked these questions and that is ‘you’ mainly because he also personally finds these questions interesting. Second of all, the Monk received a total of eleven questions (apparently all from you), but the Monk has decided to answer only five – the questions that entail greater importance. Please keep in mind that the Monk’s views would mostly reflect the standpoint of Theravada Buddhism – the form of Buddhism unanimously regarded by all Buddhist traditions as the ‘earliest’, if not the original, form of Buddhism. There can be certainly other approaches to these questions, sometimes may be completely contradictory but that is the beauty of Buddhism. Hereby the Monk tries to answer them in order:
1. I’d love to know the vows a monk takes. I’m not sure if they are secret though? I know they are many and would love to know each one!
To begin with, your doubt is right: ‘vows’ (the term you used) a monk takes are secret in the sense that they are not really supposed to be ‘recited’ in front of or together with lay people and novice monks (note that novice monks are also left out). A novice monk is also left out because he is not a full fledged monk (a full fledged monk must be at least 20 years old). A novice takes only 10 precepts or vows, if you like (google ‘The Buddhist Ten Precepts’ and you would get them). Elsewhere, the Buddha is recorded to have said that a person, lay or monk, should be ‘vinayo ca susikkhito’, a phrase which means one needs to be ‘well educated of the Vinaya’ (vinaya being the ‘vows’!!!). But unfortunately later generations of orthodox monks altered the understanding of this phrase and stated that ‘vinaya’ has two types – one for monastic monks and the other for lay (the Monk won’t mention the lay vows here because that wasn’t a part of your question). So, according to the reading of those orthodox monks, a lay should not bother with the ‘monastic vows’ whereas a monk is free to learn and preach the lay vows. But that does not prevent anyone from knowing what the monastic vows are, so to speak. Today is an open world; nothing can be hidden. Esoteric teaching is strictly supposed to be not revealed to general people but today even a school child can read a book on esoteric Buddhism in a library or on a click of a mouse! Anyway, carefully note the above paraphrase used ‘not…to…be…recited’. Verily, ‘not to be recited’ is different from ‘not…to…be…known’. This means monastic vows, as it were, can be known by anyone anywhere including you (as a matter of fact, in traditional monastic institutions, you cannot find a lay teacher teaching a class on the Monastic ‘vows’, no matter how competent he is). Before proceeding further on, the Monk would like to make a point here. The term ‘vow’ is not used by all Buddhist traditions (for convenience sake, know that academically Buddhism is popularly divided into two: Southern and Northern. The former refer to Theravada Buddhism found in South and Southeast Asia and the latter refers to Mahayana including Tibetan Buddhism found in the Northeast and Himalayan regions). Vow is popularly used by Northern Buddhism. The Southern Buddhism uses the term ‘sikkhapada’ which is a prakrit-pali word meaning ‘training factor’. Now it would depend on how one understands these two terms ‘vow’ and ‘training factor’ (the Monk would like to evade this issue). Generally, the Buddhist Bible (used here for familiarization) consists of three divisions, one of which is called ‘The Book of Monastic Discipline’ (the word used for that is ‘vinaya’). This Vinaya text contains some of the earliest monastic injunctions laid down by the historic Buddha himself and are commonly accepted by all the Buddhist traditions. The ‘Dos and Don’ts’ containing in this Vinaya text are the primary ‘vows’ (to use your term again) that a monk takes at the time of his ordination. As far as the Monk is aware, the term ‘vow’ is broader which includes aspirations and vows of other superior beings called bodhisattvas, other than the historic Buddha. Since it would take pages after pages to list and explain all the vows, some of which seem mystical and fairy tales, the Monk would only limit the discussion to the primary text mentioned above, the text where historic Buddha’s injunctions are listed. You might call them whatever you like – vows, training factors, disciplinary rules, commandments or injunctions but their relevance and purpose remains the same. The Vinaya text contains a total of 227 monastic vows or rather training factors (strictly speaking only 220, the other seven being just ‘ways of settling down monastic disputes’) which a newly baptized monk ‘undertakes to abide by’ as long as he remains a monk. Note the flexibility of the initiation process: ‘undertakes to abide by’. It is not so much as implanting these 227 vinaya rules into the sub-consciousness of the newly baptized monk. This is the very reason why the Monk finds it uncomfortable to use the term ‘vows’ because vows are more of like ‘implanting’ into someone’s sub-consciousness. The Monk prefers not to go into each of the 227 vinaya rules here as you wanted, not because they contain something very secret but because majority of them are simply manners and behavioral patterns like ‘not eating like a pig (pig is added by the Monk to refer to the ‘eating’ making lots of sound with the mouth)’, ‘not entering the living quarter of a lay person without prior notice (apparently to avoid embarrassment to the person if he is on the bed with someone)’, ‘nor urinating standing’ (but monks find it difficult to abide by this simple but troublesome rule; so, many monks just release themselves standing), ‘not to give blows to fellow monks’, ‘not to travel alone with a woman (for obvious reason)’…the list go on. These are many of the minor rules, the breach of which can be got away lightly. But there are four very serious rules any monk cannot break under any circumstances. By ‘very serious’ the Monk means any monk found guilty of these four rules or vows is to be expelled from the Monastic Community. Such a monk is termed as ‘defeated’ and he can no longer become a full fledged monk in this entire life. Such a ‘defeated’ monk is compared to a fallen leaf which cannot be placed back to its original place, or the chopped off head of a man who cannot be revived. These four serious vows are (the Monk is putting them in positive sequence, which means if a monk does any one of them he is defeated):
1. to have sex (commentary: heterosexual, bisexual, homosexual, lesbian, oral, anal sexual activities with humans or animals are to be avoided)
2. to steal (commentary: taking what is not given from an inhabited area or from the wilderness) – this is the most complex rule in the Vinaya text to define its execution exactly
3. to kill a human being (commentary: deprive a human being of life, or search for an assassin for him, or praise the advantages of death, or incite him to die) and
4. to falsely claim sainthood.
Different traditions may prescribe different set of vows but these are the four primary vows that monks of all traditions undertake to abide by as long they remain as monks.
There are further twelve second most serious vinaya vows, the breach of which entails, not expulsion, but congregational confession and probation. Interesting of them are ‘intentional emission of semen via masturbation’, ‘seductive bodily contact with a female’, ‘flirting with a woman’, ‘back biting’, ‘making schism in the monastic community’ and so on.
Please log on to www.accesstoinsight.org (stroll down the section titled ‘Vinaya Pitaka’) for more details and the complete list of the 227 ‘vows’ you want to know. The Monk would like to end this answer here because at the click of a mouse, you can find a better answer than this. If you are lazy (for lack of a better term) or have no time to find it out yourself, do let the Monk know; he will just copy and paste them here or you.
But let the Monk elaborate a bit on the practical aspect of these vows. At the early part of Buddha’s teaching career, there was no smell of these 227 rules. Apparently it was a custom of the Buddha to gather his monks once a fortnight and recite a single verse to remind them of their purpose of becoming monks: ‘do no evil, do skilful, purify your mind – this is the teaching of all Buddhas’. This original verse later gave rise to the present 227 rules because of misconduct of monks. Today, the traditional recitation of these 227 vows once a fortnight by the monastic community (belonging to the Southern tradition) still exists particularly in the forest tradition whose monks adhere to more ascetic like practices. And this kind of official recitation is the one that is secret, the term used at the beginning. Practically, apart from the four serious vows, many of the other rules are out of date – they hardly fit into the 21st century world. The Monk personally thinks that vows like – ‘not doing job, not handling money, not driving, no entertainment’ etc. etc. don’t just fit into the modern world. Yes, it is true that a monk is supposed to renounce every such worldly affair but the other side of the truth is to ask the question: is it really possible for a city monk to survive without handling money, for example? Analyzing the flexibility of Buddhist teachings of wisdom and compassion (apart from disciplinary vows), it would certainly be foolish for lay Buddhists to demand that all monks live in the forest like bats and owls and never come out to mingle with worldly affairs. The Monk believes this was a historic dilemma for the monks themselves too. To keep a balance therefore, the monks were wise and receptive enough to divide the Monastic Community into two groups: forest and town. Probably this is what made Buddhism survive till today. If you are in need of a long forest retreat, go to the forest monks. They are the qualified monks to help you achieve inner peace and harmony. But if you want to stir up your brains, then you should meet academic town monks who are highly qualified to confuse you with all kinds of complicated Buddhist philosophies and puzzles. But what is now interesting is that often a forest monk blames and criticizes a city monk accusing him of ‘only talking’ whereas Buddha’s teaching is all about ‘practicing’. The city monk also does not keep quiet. He is also always ready to blame the forest monks for ‘neglecting’ the welfare of the general people who need spiritual help, guidance and answers to their worldly problems. The debate goes on but to jump into its conclusion, it would not be wrong to say that both sides have monks stupid enough to blame and criticize the other side when in actual sense, both the sides are needed for the longevity of Buddhism.
2. Do all monks want to become monks when they start out? Is it mainly a parent’s decision - do children naturally not question parents’ decisions...many questions in this one!?
If you have known that children as little as four years old are baptized as Buddhist monks, you might not have asked whether children questioned their parents’ decision or not, because obviously such a little child would have no rational maturity to question like that, though of course he will be there to cry when his parents leave him behind in the temple cells (the Monk himself cried when he was left behind…). Perhaps, and it is true that when they become older, some of them might question their parents’ decision and might even accuse them of dumping them into a different world. Here is such a case: http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/china/2009-06/17/content_8294870.htm. Though the Monk has answered a similar question in a previous blog post ‘10 Qs for a monk’, let the Monk touch this point a bit differently. Though it is a requirement to get parents’ consent before becoming a monk, parents don’t always play the major role particularly if the boy or the man in question decides to be a monk himself. But by looking at the family and social backgrounds of majority of monks in traditional Buddhist countries, the Monk believes that if they were given another option in life, they would have certainly avoided the option of becoming monks. For example, it is uncommon to see the children of rich families becoming monks because they have other options to crave for. Younger children of economically weak families may, sometimes, be forced by parents or simply by family economic situations to join the monastic community because it would provide them with food and most importantly a better opportunity for education. Such children, as time passed by, may get used to the lifestyle of a monk. If the senior monks somehow manage to brainwash (for lack of a better word) them, then such children may continue their lives as monks till the end. But unfortunately, statistics show that majority of them disrobe once they finish their education and are sure to get some sort of employment. Despite the high rate of disrobing, the Monastic Communities in different Buddhist countries remain filled mainly because ‘incoming’ is equal to the ‘outgoing’ rate. Hence, nowadays monasteries and temples have turned out to be kind of temporary shelters for the poor to stand up in societies. It is also very natural that such younger novice monks may prefer a monastic life to the kind of life they might have led, which would have been mostly consisted of looking after buffaloes, working in the fields, looking after younger siblings and the like. Initially they might resist, but once they manage to cross a few weeks in monkhood, they are most likely to be attracted by the kind of respect, care and good facilities they are provided with in the monasteries by temple devotees. But as they grow, their needs also grow – differently.
Some other such children might not have liked their parents leaving them behind in temple cells but as they grow, they might start taking life seriously, learning Buddhist doctrines and meditating which then would prepare them for a bright future as Monastic heads, temple abbots and high ranking monks – positions many monks can dream of.
But obviously the situation in economically developed countries is a total contrast. In such countries like Korea and Japan, it is not very common to find large number of children spending their playful days as monks studying books written hundreds of years ago. Monks (mostly in their 20s) from such countries including Europe and America are most likely to have entered monkhood through their sheer will and plan. And majority of such monks are to be found in meditation centers and retreats or in academic monastic institutions because that is the very purpose of their becoming monks. Unfortunately, believe it or not, such monks are also most likely to be fame-conscious. After spending few months learning and practicing meditation, they might declare themselves as so-called ‘meditation masters’ – a very serious trend that needs to be checked out by the Western monks themselves. Not only monks, even Western so-called Buddhists have distorted Buddhism by writing books on Buddhism after attending few classes on Buddhism. Their intention must have been for the good but the result has done more harm than good. Therefore, the Monk’s request to such people is: please don’t try to take our positions in the name of helping us propagate Buddhism. You have as much to learn from us Asians as we have to learn from you Westerners. No doubt, you people are more intelligent, more scientific so to speak but our long years of monastic studies, training, practice, faithfulness and familiarity with our Buddhist cultures and traditions should not be taken as mere empty seashells.
[An interesting reference for this particular answer would be the small book entitled ‘‘Little Angels’’ by Phra Peter Pannapadipo (an English Theravada monk in Thailand). It’s a handy booklet which records a dozen of emotional, heart-rending and educative life stories of little novices in Thailand. The book was published in the UK by Arrow Books in 2005. The monk is having a scanned copy of the book. Anybody wanting a copy for personal reading can contact the monk. Fore warned: the book carries copyright. Take your own risk]
3. In Tibetan Buddhism, some monks are identified at a young age as re-incarnations of great teachers (i.e. The Dalai Lama) - is this common amongst all the Buddhist traditions?
If a direct answer serves your question right, then it would be ‘NO’. Even the very idea of reincarnation is not found particularly in the Scriptures of the Southern tradition. Though justifications and rationalizations can be put forward in support of the concept of reincarnation as an authentic Buddhist concept, it was merely a later invention – a concept originating in Tibet hundreds of years after the demise of the historic Buddha in India. Such a concept is also not to be found in the Chinese Buddhist tradition. Refer to the lineage of Chan (Zen) patriarchs in China, which was very much similar to the Dalai Lama lineage but historically the succeeding Chan patriarch was chosen by the preceding patriarch which continued until the 6th greatest of all patriarchs – Master Hui Neng. Surely they could have also incorporated such a reincarnation concept into the hierarchy of the patriarchs but they must have seemingly avoided introducing such a new concept, probably because it would raise more serious questions regarding the fundamental Buddhist tenets of impermanence and soullessness than answer the very question of rebirth. The Monk personally finds it ridiculous to accept the concept of reincarnation in support of rebirth. People have been fascinated and simply started accepting the belief in rebirths as true because the Dalai Lama, a living Buddha, the so-called bodhisattva of compassion reincarnates! Certainly this is not ‘why’ we believe in rebirths (the Monk would not go into the discussion of rebirths here because it is not a part of the original question). However, honestly the Monk has no idea what and how the Tibetan Buddhists explain ‘reincarnation‘without undermining the fundamental Buddhist tenets of impermanence and soullessness. But the Dalai Lama’s personal admission that some of the previous Dalai Lamas were wrongly recognized indicates that perhaps the Tibetan concept of ‘reincarnation’ has been widely misunderstood and misinterpreted as ‘the same Dalai Lama coming again and again’. Further evidence in support of this hypothesis is the recent incident of an Irish boy, being recognized by high ranking Lamas including the Dalai Lama himself as a reincarnated Lama, disrobed and started blaming the Buddhists for making him undergo the ordeal of nightmares living in dark cells of monasteries secluded away from the outside world http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/china/2009-06/17/content_8294870.htm Anyway, your very question that some monks are identified at a young age as reincarnations of GREAT TEACHERS (the emphasis belongs to the Monk) is not consistent with history because, to say the least, not all Dalai Lamas have been great! The last point is the Monk strongly believes that any normal child could be trained to be like the Dalai Lama if he is also given the kind of training, teaching and facilities as are due to the training of a Dalai Lama or any other such so-called incarnated souls.
The idea of searching for reincarnations of ‘enlightened beings’ (Tibetan incarnated Lamas are considered as enlightened beings) has no support from, at least, the Southern Buddhist Scriptures. A southern Buddhist may find it ridiculous to go after this idea because it is an undeniable recording that the historic Buddha (here the Monk is not talking about mystic bodhisattvas, beings Tibetans respect more) has categorically defined ‘enlightenment’ as ‘cut off is the chain of re-becoming, done what has to be done and there is no further births’. According to this reckoning, an ‘enlightened being’ has no more ‘re-becomings’! Note the term used – ‘re-becoming’ rather than the term ‘reincarnation’. The problem of reincarnation seems to the Monk like the problem of ‘egg<>chicken’ (the egg comes out of the chicken or the chicken comes out of the egg) while the issue of re-becoming is more like the question of milk<>curd<>butter<>ghee. The fundamental issue of Buddhist rebirths is to ask whether the present state of ghee is the same as the original state of milk or different from it; and this is to ask the same question ‘Is the present Dalai Lama the same as the previous Dalai Lama or will the future Dalai Lama be the same as the present Dalai Lama’. The right answer to this problem has been clearly spelt out in the Buddhist Scriptures as ‘neither-nor’ relationship. If the issue of the ‘Dalai Lama reincarnation’ is to be looked at from this angle, then the Monk is willing to accept the idea of reincarnation as essentially that of Buddhist rebirth. Yet, the question still remains as to whether such a reincarnated individual (i.e. the Dalai Lama) is indeed ‘enlightened’ or not, because ‘enlightenment’ in the sense of what the southern Buddhists understand is ‘no rebirths’. However, if the idea of great compassion is inserted to justify the rebirths of enlightened beings such-as the Dalai Lama, the bodhisattva of compassion, then the Monk thinks the greatest of all ‘reincarnations’ would be that of the historic Sakyamuni Buddha’s. But obviously, the reincarnation of the historic Buddha is out of the question. Does it, then, mean to say that the present Dalai Lama is more compassionate than the historic Buddha??? Perhaps, the Dalai Lama can answer this question better than the Monk.
4. Some monks use begging bowls - how prevalent is this? If it is still practiced what is the feeling/understanding/sense (I’m not referring to the thinking behind it - but the actual experience of the individual) - I’d imagine this too would vary from individual to individual.
A begging bowl is one of the prerequisites for a monk at the time of his ordination. A newly baptized monk is instructed on the four serious vows (mentioned in Q. no.1) and on four supports which includes ‘begging one’s own food with a bowl’, ‘wearing rag-robes’, ‘living under a tree’ and ‘using fermented urine as medicine’. Do you think these four supports are austere enough for a monk?! Well, they are as austere as hell. But don’t get the impression that every monk you see now follows them, certainly not THE MONK you are meeting online. Obliviously, a monk going begging with a bowl wearing rag-clothes in European cities would get arrested under vagrancy laws; a monk living in NYC cannot possibly find a tree to sleep under!; and a monk drinking his own urine for medical purposes while living in towns (where hospitals are available) sounds stupid (though Mahatma Gandhi is supposed to have drunk his own urine to stay healthy!!!). These so-called four supports are to be looked at from practical point of view; not simply following them just because one is a monk. But to the Buddhist credit, the group of forest monks (based in Asian Buddhist countries), mentioned in the answer to the first question above, does still, more or less, keep to these four supports. But to specify your question of the ‘bowl’; the percentage of monks (both forest and town) using a bowl to take one’s food in stationed monasteries (rather than begging with it) is comparatively higher than the other three supports. By the way, the age-old tradition of going public for alms round with bowls can still and only be found in Thailand and Burma (though forest monks in other Buddhist countries may also do the same). The using of bowls among Tibetan and Mahayana monks (Chinese, Korean, Japanese, and Vietnamese) is extremely rare, not absent though. The kind of ‘feeling/understanding/sense’ a monk is supposed to derive when using a begging bowl to take his food is recorded in the Monastic Book of Discipline as follows:
"Properly considering alms food, I use it: not playfully, nor for intoxication, nor for putting on weight, nor for beautification; but simply for the survival and continuance of this body, for ending its afflictions, for the support of the chaste life, (thinking) I will destroy old feelings (of hunger) and not create new feelings (from overeating). Thus I will maintain myself, be blameless, and live in comfort."
Whether an average monk does really get this sort of contemplative understanding remains to individual mind-development. But what is certain is that not every monk begs his food and eats from his bowl. But if you insist on the actual experience of the individual who eats from a begging bowl, then you got to try it yourself. A couple of actually feelings most likely would be: firstly, once a begging bowl is forced into your hands, you cannot help feeling that you are a beggar, you don’t exist as a valued person. Secondly, you can never get the real taste and enjoyment of food if you are eating from a bowl because all the stuff would be poured into your single holed-up bowl where sour, bitter, sweet, hot, spicy and cold rice and curries would get mixed up. At your first swallow, you are most likely to vomit out, especially if you are very choosy with foods (when Buddha first became a monk from a prince, he also almost vomited by just having a glimpse of the kinds of mixed up food holed up into his clay bowl; you cannot probably imagine the kind of feeling a prince would get if he was offered such mixed up food). However, the Monk thinks that the original purpose of using a bowl to beg and eat was not kind of deriving feelings from the bowl as such. The using of a bowl during the sixth century before Christ in primitive India was essentially a practical thing to do for a religious mendicant such as a Buddhist monk. A religious mendicant at the time was compared to a bird which flies anywhere easily without the burden of carrying tons of stuff. Carrying all sorts of spoons, forks, chopsticks, plates, pots, glasses, cups, jars and the like was simply not an option for a bird-like mendicant. So, the easiest and the most practical option was to carry a simple bowl that you can use to collect your food and eat to survive for the pursuit of the kind of spirituality you have become a monk for.
This particular issue of a bowl reminds the Monk of something happened decades ago. When the first group of Western monks, trained in the forest traditions in Asia, went back to the West on a preaching mission, many people there wondered whether Western people could really afford to look after these forest monks. And somebody apparently did an account to know how much it would cost to look after a single monk. Surprisingly they found out that it actually was much cheaper to look after a monk than it was to look after a dog!!! The similarity between a monk and a dog is both of them eat out of bowls in which everything is poured into. So, the logic was that every western family should have a monk at their backyards!
5. How many monks have teachers in the sense of a Guru? I would love to know something about such a relationship - especially in the context of a monastery where there are many students. And this gives rise to something I heard recently - when we have teachers we connect with - the likelihood is high that there was a connection in a previous life. Is this seen to be the case?
Well, theoretically and practically every monk has a ‘teacher’ but the Monk is not very sure what you exactly understand by the term ‘Guru’. Let the Monk quote the very word of the historic Buddha as found in the Monastic Book of Discipline:
‘‘Monks, I allow a preceptor. The preceptor will foster the attitude he would have toward a son ('son-mind') with regard to the student. The student will foster the attitude he would have toward a father ('father-mind') with regard to the preceptor. Thus they — living with mutual respect, deference, and courtesy — will arrive at growth, increase, and maturity in this Dhamma-Vinaya’’.
If you understand this statement in its intended sense regarding teacher-student or guru-disciple relationship, then you would see no possible difference between a teacher and a guru. Please keep in mind that by ‘teacher’ the Monk does not mean the kind of teacher you can find teaching geography or history in a school class. In Buddhist context, guru (used mostly in the Tibetan tradition), teacher/preceptor (used in the Theravada tradition) and/or master (used in the Chinese tradition) essentially refer to the same person.
In the Tibetan and Chinese traditions, the disciple’s absolute faith and submission to the Guru/Master is an essential part of the initiation process, so much so that in the Tibetan tradition they have four refuges – Guru, Buddha, Dharma and Sangha (note the foremost position given to the Guru). This requires the disciple to solely depend on the Guru’s mercy and guidance for his enlightenment, so to speak. Since the Tibetan initiation of guru-disciple relationship can take separate vows and promises, the Monk is not very sure how many Tibetan monks do have such connections with recognized Gurus (mostly incarnated Lamas).
The second part of your question is also not specified; the Monk is not sure whether you want to know something about teacher-student relationship in the context of a Theravada monastery, a Tibetan monastery or a Mahayana monastery, because each of these traditions has its own ways of teacher-student relationship. But for answer sake, let the monk briefly tell you a typical teacher-student relationship that goes on in the Southern monastic set-up.
In the ordination process of the Southern Buddhist tradition, a monk candidate is presented with two high ranking, competent monks of not less than ten years of monastic standing (mostly selected by the candidate himself) who would be his legal and official Upajjhaya, a term meaning ‘preceptor’ and Acariya, a term meaning ‘teacher’. The job of the preceptor is to lead the ordination ceremony and to be a guide to the newly ordained monk in matters of monastic disciplines through out his monastic life, whereas the job of the teacher is to teach the newly ordained monk the points of Buddhist doctrines and philosophies. But in actual practice, usually a single high ranking, competent and educated monk acts as both preceptor and teacher. In the Southern Buddhist tradition, the relationship between the teacher and the student may not be and does not required to be very profound and abiding because he does not depend on a single teacher for enlightenment, so to speak. Secondly, neither majority of monks do target ‘enlightenment’ nor is it common to find known and recognized enlightened teachers. Thirdly majority of monks become monks to get an education that would prepare them for a living (for want of a better term). Hence, they would depend on school and university teachers to pass exams and get certificates than on a committed guru/teacher for ‘enlightenment’. This is to say, not majority of monks do have a COMMITTED TEACHER, as the Monk puts it. If you hear a modern monk talking about his ‘teacher’, most likely he is his ‘teacher’ because that ‘teacher’ is supporting him with financial and material helps for his education just like a father spending for his son’s education. And this is the modern version of the Buddha’s statement quoted at the beginning that a teacher should be ‘father-minded’ and a student should be ‘son-minded’.
In a monastery where there are many students, not all students there are students of the head monk of that particular monastery. Different students may have different ‘teachers’ (in the sense of what has just been said); it is most likely that they are there either because it is a residential monastic educational institution or because it is a monastic hostel. But in a very rare case, a modern highly educated and rich monk may have many monk students in a single monastery mainly because he can pay for their education. The students’ relationships with the teacher may not be so much spiritual as it is for financial.
A modern well known vipassana meditation guru mostly coming out of Burma may have hundreds of students from different countries but he is only their guru/teacher so long as he leads a meditation retreat for them for a certain periods of time. The conclusion is in the Southern Buddhist tradition, an abiding committed relationship between a teacher and student for the keen pursuit of enlightenment is extremely rare.
The third part of your question is something to do with the Buddhist concept of karma. Well, it’s not only with teachers, karma is said to be an essential component of ‘why’ we have the kind of parents here and now, the kind of country we are born in to, the kinds of friends and relatives we strongly relate to, so on and so forth. It is much more so with the right kind of connection one may have with the right kind of teacher for the keen pursuit of enlightenment.
Got any question? Write to the Monk at askthemonk@hotmail.com
Sunday, June 21, 2009
10 Qs for a monk!!!
The Following are some of the many selected questions that are posed to monks. The Monk tries to answer them all based on his understanding and experience.
1. Why have you become a monk?
This is a question that every monk, even once in life, would be asked. Once he dons that monk robe, he got to get ready an answer for this if he hasn’t yet. The Monk came to realize that this question is most likely to be posed to young monks by people who find the life of a monk strange enough for men with blooming youths. With every possible temptation laid out by the 21st century modernity, serious commitment to religious vows and practice just seem odd for young men who ought to be amusing themselves with numerous girlfriends and gadgets out there. To the Monk’s knowledge, it is only in Buddhism (Tibetan and Mahayana) one can find young monks as little as four years old, an age hardly enough to stay away from mother’s breast milk. In the Theravada Buddhist Sect, however, the minimum age limit to ordain a little boy is seven, an age dictated by the ancient Buddhist Scriptures as ‘just enough to scare away crows with the throw of a stone’. But what is common for every Buddhist sect is not ordaining a boy or a man into the Buddhist Monastic Sangha (Sangha is a word used to refer to the ordained members of Buddhism but in a broader sense, sangha can be used to refer to a ‘community’ i.e. the Buddhist followers) without the prior permission of the parents or guardians concerned.
The question of ‘why’ become a monk varies individually. Even the fundamental reason why boys and men become monks in traditional Buddhist societies varies drastically from that of people taking the robes in modern America and Europe. But generally, the following reasons, thoroughly researched out and listed by the Monk are the main ‘whys’ of becoming a monk:
1. In search of enlightenment: Buddha, the founder of Buddhism, is said to be only twenty nine years old when he, as a youthful prince, stole away from his family and kingdom one mid night. Years later He told His disciples that He left his family and kingdom ‘in search of enlightenment’. Nearly hundred percent of His immediate monk disciples is a typical example of this nature. But the Monk would like to emphasize here that in the 21st century, ‘in search of enlightenment’ is certainly not the main reason why many monks became what they are. As a matter of fact, ‘in search of enlightenment’ has very little value, if at all, for majority modern monks. This hypothesis does, of course, leave out some exceptions. Take the example of the monk you know most – the Dalai Lama. Do you honestly think he became a monk ‘in search of enlightenment’? Of course not! That would be ridiculous to think so. At least that was not his original plan. He was simply MADE a monk under the pretext of being an incarnated Lama. Nobody is a born monk, anyway. But if you talk of Dalai Lama as an enlightened being now with wisdom and compassion; well, don’t you think ‘you’ would have been a Dalai Lama as well, having got the best possible training and care from childhood just the way he did? The point the Monk is trying to note here is that it is not common now, as you might think, to meet a monk who absolutely took up the robe ‘in search of enlightenment’ as his original purpose. If you ever meet a monk who claims to have become a monk for that very purpose, then he, for that very reason, is uncommon. But the Monk is aware of the fact that many monks would simply claim to be so when they actually are not, simply to preserve self-esteem because that was the original purpose of becoming a monk as strictly maintained and endorsed by the Buddha himself.
2. Broken heart, betrayal or the lose of a beloved person: This is something that a monk in question would never admit, not at least so easily. It is a strong tendency in Southeast Buddhist countries to believe that a girl or woman becoming a Buddhist nun means she got sacked by her boyfriend, got divorced or nobody would marry her. The Monk of course does not hold this pervert view. In times of extreme and desperate disasters, it is the nature of man to find solace in religion which offers psychological solace. In Buddhist society, such a man is most likely to take up the robe to try to escape such humiliation and sadness if he somehow manages to cross over the option of committing suicide. A monk of this nature is most likely to disrobe soon after he recovers.
3. Enough enjoyment with life, bored with partying and hassles of lay life and the fear of loneliness at old age: Monks of this category are at least 30+ who have had enough in lay life which includes sex, even married life (things a young monk tends to over fantasize), career and so on. If you ever meet a young monk under the age of 30 who turned out to be a monk since childhood, never assume him to be of this category. In fact, that monk is most likely to disrobe once he finds a proper opportunity and settle down with the kind of girl he has been meditating on since the moment he started smelling the temptation of feminity. The Monk considers the monks who became monks in their old age just to get proper care after spending all their energetic days running after money and women as ‘worn out carts deposited to the garage waiting for the right time to be disposed of’. Never approach such old monks (don’t think old is gold) if you are serious of meditation and Buddhist doctrines.
4. Temporary Monkhood: Temporary monkhood is widespread and popular in Burma, Thailand, Laos, Cambodia, Korea, in parts of Buddhist dominated regions of India, Bangladesh, the Malay Peninsula and it is also seen in Tibetan and Japanese Buddhist societies, albeit not that common. The case of Sri Lanka is a bit different. The concept of temporary monkhood is not a practice in there. It is in fact disapproved of by Sri Lankan Buddhists. But nevertheless, temporary monkhood is sought mainly for three reasons: to mark the entry to adulthood (i.e. becoming a monk before marriage), to commemorate the Vesak (the Buddhist Xmas) and/or to accumulate so-called ‘merits’ which are then dedicated to one’s living or deceased parents or relatives. The duration of temporary monkhood may extend from three days up to three months; the standard being one week. The reason why Sri Lankan Buddhists disapprove of temporary monkhood is because, to them, it makes no sense to stay a monk for three days! After all, monkhood is for enlightenment and who on earth can attain enlightenment within three days! On the other hand, the non-Sri Lankan Buddhists argue citing one of Buddha’s statements that ‘a single day of diligent living with contemplation and kindness is better than living a hundred years without mindfulness and kindness’. However much appealing this argument may seem to be, the Monk wants to note here that temporary monks are in fact useless which is just a show off, because such monks either fail to receive an intensive mind and moral training within such a short time or simply choose to live their temporary monk life as the way they lived as lay – smoking, talking to girlfriends with mobiles (even seeing their girlfriends at night – something which the Monk witnessed), carrying iPods and the rest. The Monk was very surprised to observe such phenomena when he was studying in Thailand. The Monk also had the opportunity to observe another kind of temporary monkhood practiced in the remote parts of Bangladesh where after the death of a parent, it is a religious custom for a male child to become a monk for seven days to help the parent reborn in heaven. In Buddhist societies, the male child is believed to be the key to the door of heaven for the mother.
Usually such temporary monks are not allowed to go about in the public except for collecting alms; so most probably you may not be able to meet such monks unless you yourself go to meet them in the temples.
5. Economic Reason: This reason alone counts for the 70% + of the monks you meet or see today. It is an open claim in South and Southeast Asian Buddhist countries and societies that ‘monkhood is for the poor’. Indeed, no millionaires or their children would ever (not even by mistake) become monks. The case of every Thai king entering temporary monkhood is not out of will; it is a custom. Monks of this category mostly leave the robe once they are able to stand up financially. Enlightenment is far, far away from them. Majority of monks would never admit their humble roots for fear of losing their self esteem. If you ask a monk ‘why have you become a monk? ’, the most likely answer you would hear is ‘I want to study Buddhism and practice meditation and help other people from sufferings. This is why I became a monk’. This is ridiculous by the way. How many of them do really practice what they say is something that you got to experiment by yourself by living closely with them. The Monk finds it ridiculous even to comment on this point.
So the question of why somebody became a monk is anyone’s guess.
2. Can a monk disrobe?
Yes, he can disrobe whenever he wishes to do so. In fact, the percentage of monks disrobing is surprisingly very high. Let the Monk explain it a bit more. In the first question, it has been pointed out that Sri Lankan Buddhists do disapprove of temporary monkhood, which means that in their society anyone taking up the robe is for life. Disrobed persons are looked down upon with disgust and humiliation. Despite this cultural disapproval, a very high number of Sri Lankan monks do disrobe for various reasons, main one of which is worldly temptations (statistically, Sri Lankan monks population is never higher than 40,000 in contrast to countries like Thailand and Burma where the monk population is over 300,000). In contrast, it is very, very common in Thailand for monks to disrobe without any social or cultural hassles. Most interesting thing is that disrobed boys and men in Thai society are favored for marriage and civil services. The reason was explained to the Monk by a Thai ex-monk like this: ‘in modern Thai society, an average Thai male is violent, can be a drug addict, a gambler and so on. Someone spending long years in the monkhood cannot be and cannot certainly turn into a violent drug addict and the like. This is why a disrobed man is favored’. Interestingly, the Monk was also told by a group of young Thai girls that ‘a married life with a disrobed man would be tough because such a man, having spent years in monkhood with no contact with women, is simply non-caring, insensitive and inactive to women’s feelings’. The Monk thinks that the girls’ concern is indeed worrying because, in Buddhism, a monk is constantly trained to consider a woman as an obstacle to a man’s progress. A disrobed man is most likely to continue this trend against women including his wife/wives. The situation in Burma, Cambodia and Laos is not much different from Thailand. The case of the Chinese Mahayana monks is pretty pathetic because they become monks with a vow to be monks, not only for this life, but for lives to come! This is quite a long way off. To make things worse, Chinese Mahayana monks burn their shaven heads and bodies to make dotted spots – kind of visible symbols to say that he is a monk as long as the universe persists. Now these burnt dotted spots all over the visible bodily parts (mostly on top of the head and on the forearm) make it technically impossible for a monk to disrobe even if he regretted it at a later time of his life, because with such visible objects, he would be the easy target of ridicule and disgust. Nevertheless, such monks do still disrobe. In the Tibetan tradition, though the so-called incarnated enlightened lamas are considered to be born monks, the rate of disrobing among the ordinary Tibetan monks is not surprisingly low (history shows that even born monks i.e. incarnated lamas tend to disrobe). The Monk would like to end this note by emphasizing that there is no any religious crime if a monk decides to disrobe. In fact, it is recommended to disrobe rather than spoiling the monastic order if one were dissatisfied or unable to lead such a noble life. Buddha called disrobing as ‘going back to the lower life’ (family life is lower than a monastic life).
3. Why does a monk shave his head?
The Monk finds this question particularly interesting. Apparently, there is no religious injunction for Islamic Imams and Christian priests to shave their heads, whereas every Buddhist monk is required to shave his head either every fortnight or once a month. Buddhist monks in different Buddhist countries may wear different kinds of robes in different ways but what makes them common is that they all have to shave their heads. The Buddha is said to have used an oft-quoted phrase ‘having shaven the head and beard’ to indicate that a person has been baptized as a monk. His own entrance into monkhood is also marked by his ‘shaving head and beard’. But there is no any sort of official explanation of why a monk has to shave his head and beard. Perhaps, monks forgot or didn’t care at all to ask this question to the Buddha. However, the reasons are not that complicated to figure out why a monk shaves his head and beard (the beauty of Buddhism is that individual explanation can matter a lot in the absence of official explanation). The first assumption is that it was a common practice at the time. Hindu Brahmin priests shaved their heads at the time of their initiation into Brahmin priesthood. Likewise, many other different religious groups at the time shaved their heads to indicate that they have renounced the everyday world. Having been influenced by some common religious designations of the time, the Buddha must have simply followed the same. There was also an exception of hard-line religious people who practiced extreme asceticism which includes not shaving heads and beard for years (it is recorded that Buddha, when not yet enlightened, also practiced such asceticism but soon gave up realizing that that was not the way to enlightenment). But what’s interesting to note here is that during Buddha’s very lifetime, other religious people often ridiculed and verbally abused his monk disciples by calling them ‘bald-headed ascetics’ (used in an offensive way). Does it indicate that only Buddhist monks were bald-headed?
The second explanation is: a monk shaves his head to look ‘not nice’ because he is trying to be detached from attachment. The Monk derived this explanation from a story involving Buddha’s personal (monk) attendant named Ananda and a young girl. Ananda is recorded to have been a very handsome monk who was a heartthrob for many women whenever he went out for public alms collection. This particular young girl apparently fell in love with him and was on a hunger strike telling her mother that Ananda should be brought to her. To cut the story short, one night the mother managed to bring Ananda to their house but when he became aware of the purpose, he quickly escaped to the Buddha. The young girl soon followed him right up to the Buddha where Ananda was trembling for fear of being charged. When Buddha was informed of the happening, He is recorded to have said to the young girl, ‘why do you love my monk! He has no hair…’. By ‘he has no hair’ the Monk understands Buddha as saying Ananda was looking ugly because he was shaven headed. But anyhow, the question remains as to whether one really looks ugly shaven headed. As a matter of fact, the Monk is often told by young girls that monks look more cute with their shining shaven heads! And to add credence to this, nowadays shaving heads also has become a fashion especially because some football stars shave their heads like monks! But more or less, one of the original purposes of shaving the head was to lose beauty.
The Monk derived the third explanation from the point of view of Freudian psychology: monks shave their heads because it makes them look like babies, which then generates maternal instincts for devotees to support the monks thinking that ‘monks are like our children!’
The fourth explanation is when a monk shaves his head, it reminds him of his ‘defilements’ which are like his ‘hairs’ to be got rid of. Indeed, it is a practice not to shave one’s own head but to let another fellow monk shave it so that the monk being shaved can use this occasion to contemplate on the eradication of his defilements and visualize his fellow monk as his spiritual partner.
The fifth explanation is more practical. Why spend so much money and time designing your hairstyle when there are so many other useful businesses left to be done?
Perhaps it is all of the above five explanations why a monk shaves his head. In modern time, you might have met Tibetan and Chinese monks who have long hairs and beard. The reason was explained to the Monk by a Tibetan as ‘these monks are so busy meditating that they have no time to shave their heads and beard’. The Monk personally does not find this explanation appealing. In Thailand, monks are often called ‘calendar’ because monks there shave their heads once a month and when they do, people know it is full moon.
4. What does a monk wear under that long hanging robe?
The Monk is surprised at just how many people are curious to know what exactly a monk wears under his long hanging robe. An American lady who went to Thailand to tutor a group of young monks was surprised to see, for the first time, a monk taking his ringing mobile from inside his hanging robe! Ridiculous enough, sometimes a monk can be mistaken as an Indian lady just by the fact that the robe seems like a sari! The region where Buddhism originated is a tropical region which does not require much clothing. Moreover, in Indian philosophy, it is stated that one needs to discard belongings in order to be in a state of desireless. Hence, religious people tried to disown as many personal belongings as possible, to the extent that some extremist religious people like the Jainist ascetics wore nothing at all. Nakedness was never an option for the Buddha, however. The earliest prescription of clothing for a Buddhist monk was just a sarong-like under robe and the main robe to cover up the entire body which was needed to escape from the bites of mosquitoes, cold and heat, three factors which were common in a forest, a monk’s original home. Monks in tropical countries are still retaining this ancient set of clothing with the addition of an inner shirt covering the left shoulder but revealing the right and a waist belt to tighten up the under robe (underwear is not allowable, rather not prescribed for monks, though wearing underwear is a common practice for modern monks).The robe set of a Tibetan monk is very similar to that of the Theravada monk. What differs is the Tibetan monk’s main robe is shorter and smaller and the shirt covers both the shoulders. A Tibetan monk practically needed to cover both the shoulders because Tibet is the land of snow. Chinese, Korean and Japanese monks also adopted unique sets of robes suiting their respective climatic environments. Their dresses often contain elaborate designs and often a high ranking monk can be recognized by simply looking at his dress code. It is like the star ranking of the military. Generally and holistically, every modern monk wears an inner shirt which contains small pockets. Therefore, you should not wonder if you see a modern monk taking a mobile, an iPod or money from inside his robe.
5. How does a monk resist sexual feelings?
Neither every monk would be asked this question nor would many people ask it. Yet, there are people curious enough to ask this question. Sexuality is strictly forbidden for a monk. Any monk doing so is no more a monk. Not many people can resist sexual temptations and that’s why not many people become monks, so to speak. Someone once told the Monk that when he was twelve years old he became a novice monk but soon disrobed because he couldn’t resist the smell of dinner coming out of the neighboring households (Theravada monks cannot take dinner) and again at the age of twenty he became a monk for the second time but was soon forced to disrobe because he couldn’t resist the sexual feelings he got from seeing beautiful girls. Sex is a biological instinct of a man. Not even a monk of long ascetic practice can honestly deny his urge of sexual feelings. Sexuality is said to be one of the three destructive desires that almost overcame the Buddha at the eve of his final enlightenment. And from his own experience, Buddha did not fail to recognize sexuality as the greatest of all temptations. There are a number of prescribed ways for a monk to resist sexual feelings. The Monk would list only two of them here. The first is a kind of mental meditation called ‘vedana-bhavana’ (meditation on feelings). This requires a monk to carefully watch out one’s feelings (the sexual feelings in this case) that are arising in him; being mindful of them and just allow them to be without giving them any reckless force. It so happens that because of the lack of mindfulness and insight into his feelings, a man becomes slave to them. Hence, a monk is advised to understand and be aware as his feelings give rise. Mindful observation of feelings subdues any negative feelings because feelings are, just any other, in a state of flux: arising and ceasing. Their very nature of arising and ceasing means any feeling can be overcome. What it needs is mindful observation. The second method is also a mental meditation called ‘meditation on impurity’. In case of aroused sexual feelings, a monk meditates on the impurity of a woman’s physical body. This requires the visualization of the woman’s bodily parts according to their original natures. For example, if her eyes turn him on, he would meditate on her eyes and visualize every possible dirty stuff connected to her eyes like tears and dirty stuff that come out from eyes. To take the extreme example would be her private parts. A monk, in case of intensity, would meditate on her private parts and visualize every impurities connected to them like urine and monthlies and so on. This visualization would be well disgusting enough to turn him off.
Masturbation is not allowed for monks. In fact, masturbation is a serious offence a monk can perform which entails congregational confession and probation. Yet, the option of masturbation to release intense sexual feelings is not ruled out by ordinary monks, though this would be denied to outsiders by them for obvious reasons. Medically, off time masturbation is a healthy practice, which is why, when, in the absence of intentional masturbation, one has wet dream it is not an offence for monks.
In the absence of these methods, overpowered by such feelings, a deranged monk can commit sexual misconduct or even rapes – incidents that are not alien to media news.
6. Do hot girls turn a monk on?
The answer to this question is not much different from the answer given above. When Ajahn Brahm, an Australian Theravada monk, went to give a lecture to a girls’ school, in the middle of the lecture, he was apparently asked by a school girl whether hot girls turn him on! Though Ajahn Brahm supposedly avoided answering the question, a simple answer of ‘no’ would not have been appropriate. Why? – simply because Ajahn Brahm is not an arahant (a Buddhist saint who is considered to be devoid of sexual feelings). HH the Dalai Lama, regarded to be a living Buddha, himself admitted in one of his private interviews that beautiful girls do sometimes appear in his dream! Interesting enough, in the later second part of the early Buddhist era, there was a debate suggesting that even such a saint can be tormented by sexual darts (the Monk would not go into this debate here because it is a separate topic). The point here is, yes, hot girls do turn a monk on but how an individual monk would respond to that ‘turn on’ is a complex answer.
7. How does a monk regulate himself under strict disciplinary rules such-as ‘no sex’ and ‘no entertainment’?
Answer not available
8. Can a monk fall in love?
Even during the very lifetime of the Buddha, monks fell in love (even with prostitutes) and through out its history, monks have fallen in love, disrobed and returned to family lives. With modern multifaceted techno-temptations of fashion shows, movies, live concerts and beauty shows, mobiles, TVs, internet and so on ever on the rise, the rate of monks falling in love with girls and women is unimaginably higher than it was in the past. Before monks lived in forests and caves with no potential contacts with the outside world but now monks live in apartments and temples in towns and cities where life is all about temptations and enjoyments. An average modern monk is most likely to have a secret girlfriend in case he decides to disrobe someday. In traditional Buddhist countries, the disrobing rate among highly educated young monks is so alarming that it has been a headache for the senior Buddhist clergy to retain educated, competent and energetic young monks as its members to meet modern demands of competency and efficiency with the fast changing world. In Thailand, in the very recent time, legislative laws were approved by national parliament to punish women more seriously (the guilty monks could get out with light punishment!) if they are caught having affairs with monks. This unfair law, which was of course abated after intense criticism, was an attempt to discourage girls and women from luring monks. In all the Buddhist departments of Sri Lankan universities, 90% of lay professors and lecturers found are disrobed monks. This means it is rare to meet highly educated Sri Lankan monks.
9. What is the thing a monk misses most?
Whatever the answer you may hear from monks, probably ‘sex’ is the thing a monk misses most, though many monks would shy away from telling this truth. This is particularly true among long standing monks. Missing sex of course should not be taken as being slave to sex. This is just a ‘thing’ a monk misses and admitted in response to curious questions posed to monks. Monks don’t miss listening to music, watching TVs, movies and matches because they have them all in their private quarters, albeit it is officially forbidden by the Buddhist Book of Discipline.
10. What is the ambition of a monk?
Theoretically, you should not ask a monk his ambition because ‘ambitionless’ (=enlightenment > a state of no ambitions) is the ambition of a monk! Yet this is probably the most comfortable question a monk is willing to answer. Once, a Korean lay Buddhist was very shocked to know from the Monk that ‘enlightenment’ is not the ‘ambition’ of majority of the modern monks. Historically, it was the decision of the monks who wrote down the Buddhist Scriptures (ca. 1st century before Christ) for the first time in Sri Lanka that scholarship over actual practice should and must be the aim of a monk. Given that historical trend (though many monks are not even aware of this historical decision), you may hear a monk saying that his ambition is ‘to study the Dharma and propagate it for the benefit of many sentient beings’. ‘Practice the Dharma and get enlightened’ is not the ambition of a monk that you would very much like to hear from them. Statistically, becoming a teacher, a professor, a preacher is the only ambition a monk can have. Becoming a soldier, a pilot, a doctor, a politician cannot be ambitions of a monk because they are forbidden. Yet, surprising it may seem, some Sri Lankan monks do sometimes wish to be soldiers (it was in the media?) and in fact, now there is a political party in the Sri Lankan National Parliament consisting only of monks! Hence, theoretically, it is possible for a monk to aim at becoming a President in that country. As a matter of fact, Ven. Soma Thero, a highly influential monk apparently had the agenda of running for the presidential post, one of the main reasons why, it is believed, he was false played and died in Russia, apparently killed by Christians, the so-called enemies of Buddhism in Sri Lanka. Such incidents of monks trying to be heads of state are not uncommon in history. In Japan, by the end of the Nara Period (710 – 793 AD), a powerful Hosso School monk also tried to become an Emperor himself.
It is only in the very recent time that actual practice (i.e. meditation) over academic scholarship is being emphasized particularly in the Southeast Asian countries like Burma and Thailand (Sri Lanka still remains as the hub of academic studies). Hence, now you would meet many monks whose ambition is ‘meditation and becoming a meditation master’. The case of Tibet, China, Korea and Japan is static. The ambition of monks in these countries, to put it simply, is ‘to help sentient beings’ – a parroting echo.
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1. Why have you become a monk?
This is a question that every monk, even once in life, would be asked. Once he dons that monk robe, he got to get ready an answer for this if he hasn’t yet. The Monk came to realize that this question is most likely to be posed to young monks by people who find the life of a monk strange enough for men with blooming youths. With every possible temptation laid out by the 21st century modernity, serious commitment to religious vows and practice just seem odd for young men who ought to be amusing themselves with numerous girlfriends and gadgets out there. To the Monk’s knowledge, it is only in Buddhism (Tibetan and Mahayana) one can find young monks as little as four years old, an age hardly enough to stay away from mother’s breast milk. In the Theravada Buddhist Sect, however, the minimum age limit to ordain a little boy is seven, an age dictated by the ancient Buddhist Scriptures as ‘just enough to scare away crows with the throw of a stone’. But what is common for every Buddhist sect is not ordaining a boy or a man into the Buddhist Monastic Sangha (Sangha is a word used to refer to the ordained members of Buddhism but in a broader sense, sangha can be used to refer to a ‘community’ i.e. the Buddhist followers) without the prior permission of the parents or guardians concerned.
The question of ‘why’ become a monk varies individually. Even the fundamental reason why boys and men become monks in traditional Buddhist societies varies drastically from that of people taking the robes in modern America and Europe. But generally, the following reasons, thoroughly researched out and listed by the Monk are the main ‘whys’ of becoming a monk:
1. In search of enlightenment: Buddha, the founder of Buddhism, is said to be only twenty nine years old when he, as a youthful prince, stole away from his family and kingdom one mid night. Years later He told His disciples that He left his family and kingdom ‘in search of enlightenment’. Nearly hundred percent of His immediate monk disciples is a typical example of this nature. But the Monk would like to emphasize here that in the 21st century, ‘in search of enlightenment’ is certainly not the main reason why many monks became what they are. As a matter of fact, ‘in search of enlightenment’ has very little value, if at all, for majority modern monks. This hypothesis does, of course, leave out some exceptions. Take the example of the monk you know most – the Dalai Lama. Do you honestly think he became a monk ‘in search of enlightenment’? Of course not! That would be ridiculous to think so. At least that was not his original plan. He was simply MADE a monk under the pretext of being an incarnated Lama. Nobody is a born monk, anyway. But if you talk of Dalai Lama as an enlightened being now with wisdom and compassion; well, don’t you think ‘you’ would have been a Dalai Lama as well, having got the best possible training and care from childhood just the way he did? The point the Monk is trying to note here is that it is not common now, as you might think, to meet a monk who absolutely took up the robe ‘in search of enlightenment’ as his original purpose. If you ever meet a monk who claims to have become a monk for that very purpose, then he, for that very reason, is uncommon. But the Monk is aware of the fact that many monks would simply claim to be so when they actually are not, simply to preserve self-esteem because that was the original purpose of becoming a monk as strictly maintained and endorsed by the Buddha himself.
2. Broken heart, betrayal or the lose of a beloved person: This is something that a monk in question would never admit, not at least so easily. It is a strong tendency in Southeast Buddhist countries to believe that a girl or woman becoming a Buddhist nun means she got sacked by her boyfriend, got divorced or nobody would marry her. The Monk of course does not hold this pervert view. In times of extreme and desperate disasters, it is the nature of man to find solace in religion which offers psychological solace. In Buddhist society, such a man is most likely to take up the robe to try to escape such humiliation and sadness if he somehow manages to cross over the option of committing suicide. A monk of this nature is most likely to disrobe soon after he recovers.
3. Enough enjoyment with life, bored with partying and hassles of lay life and the fear of loneliness at old age: Monks of this category are at least 30+ who have had enough in lay life which includes sex, even married life (things a young monk tends to over fantasize), career and so on. If you ever meet a young monk under the age of 30 who turned out to be a monk since childhood, never assume him to be of this category. In fact, that monk is most likely to disrobe once he finds a proper opportunity and settle down with the kind of girl he has been meditating on since the moment he started smelling the temptation of feminity. The Monk considers the monks who became monks in their old age just to get proper care after spending all their energetic days running after money and women as ‘worn out carts deposited to the garage waiting for the right time to be disposed of’. Never approach such old monks (don’t think old is gold) if you are serious of meditation and Buddhist doctrines.
4. Temporary Monkhood: Temporary monkhood is widespread and popular in Burma, Thailand, Laos, Cambodia, Korea, in parts of Buddhist dominated regions of India, Bangladesh, the Malay Peninsula and it is also seen in Tibetan and Japanese Buddhist societies, albeit not that common. The case of Sri Lanka is a bit different. The concept of temporary monkhood is not a practice in there. It is in fact disapproved of by Sri Lankan Buddhists. But nevertheless, temporary monkhood is sought mainly for three reasons: to mark the entry to adulthood (i.e. becoming a monk before marriage), to commemorate the Vesak (the Buddhist Xmas) and/or to accumulate so-called ‘merits’ which are then dedicated to one’s living or deceased parents or relatives. The duration of temporary monkhood may extend from three days up to three months; the standard being one week. The reason why Sri Lankan Buddhists disapprove of temporary monkhood is because, to them, it makes no sense to stay a monk for three days! After all, monkhood is for enlightenment and who on earth can attain enlightenment within three days! On the other hand, the non-Sri Lankan Buddhists argue citing one of Buddha’s statements that ‘a single day of diligent living with contemplation and kindness is better than living a hundred years without mindfulness and kindness’. However much appealing this argument may seem to be, the Monk wants to note here that temporary monks are in fact useless which is just a show off, because such monks either fail to receive an intensive mind and moral training within such a short time or simply choose to live their temporary monk life as the way they lived as lay – smoking, talking to girlfriends with mobiles (even seeing their girlfriends at night – something which the Monk witnessed), carrying iPods and the rest. The Monk was very surprised to observe such phenomena when he was studying in Thailand. The Monk also had the opportunity to observe another kind of temporary monkhood practiced in the remote parts of Bangladesh where after the death of a parent, it is a religious custom for a male child to become a monk for seven days to help the parent reborn in heaven. In Buddhist societies, the male child is believed to be the key to the door of heaven for the mother.
Usually such temporary monks are not allowed to go about in the public except for collecting alms; so most probably you may not be able to meet such monks unless you yourself go to meet them in the temples.
5. Economic Reason: This reason alone counts for the 70% + of the monks you meet or see today. It is an open claim in South and Southeast Asian Buddhist countries and societies that ‘monkhood is for the poor’. Indeed, no millionaires or their children would ever (not even by mistake) become monks. The case of every Thai king entering temporary monkhood is not out of will; it is a custom. Monks of this category mostly leave the robe once they are able to stand up financially. Enlightenment is far, far away from them. Majority of monks would never admit their humble roots for fear of losing their self esteem. If you ask a monk ‘why have you become a monk? ’, the most likely answer you would hear is ‘I want to study Buddhism and practice meditation and help other people from sufferings. This is why I became a monk’. This is ridiculous by the way. How many of them do really practice what they say is something that you got to experiment by yourself by living closely with them. The Monk finds it ridiculous even to comment on this point.
So the question of why somebody became a monk is anyone’s guess.
2. Can a monk disrobe?
Yes, he can disrobe whenever he wishes to do so. In fact, the percentage of monks disrobing is surprisingly very high. Let the Monk explain it a bit more. In the first question, it has been pointed out that Sri Lankan Buddhists do disapprove of temporary monkhood, which means that in their society anyone taking up the robe is for life. Disrobed persons are looked down upon with disgust and humiliation. Despite this cultural disapproval, a very high number of Sri Lankan monks do disrobe for various reasons, main one of which is worldly temptations (statistically, Sri Lankan monks population is never higher than 40,000 in contrast to countries like Thailand and Burma where the monk population is over 300,000). In contrast, it is very, very common in Thailand for monks to disrobe without any social or cultural hassles. Most interesting thing is that disrobed boys and men in Thai society are favored for marriage and civil services. The reason was explained to the Monk by a Thai ex-monk like this: ‘in modern Thai society, an average Thai male is violent, can be a drug addict, a gambler and so on. Someone spending long years in the monkhood cannot be and cannot certainly turn into a violent drug addict and the like. This is why a disrobed man is favored’. Interestingly, the Monk was also told by a group of young Thai girls that ‘a married life with a disrobed man would be tough because such a man, having spent years in monkhood with no contact with women, is simply non-caring, insensitive and inactive to women’s feelings’. The Monk thinks that the girls’ concern is indeed worrying because, in Buddhism, a monk is constantly trained to consider a woman as an obstacle to a man’s progress. A disrobed man is most likely to continue this trend against women including his wife/wives. The situation in Burma, Cambodia and Laos is not much different from Thailand. The case of the Chinese Mahayana monks is pretty pathetic because they become monks with a vow to be monks, not only for this life, but for lives to come! This is quite a long way off. To make things worse, Chinese Mahayana monks burn their shaven heads and bodies to make dotted spots – kind of visible symbols to say that he is a monk as long as the universe persists. Now these burnt dotted spots all over the visible bodily parts (mostly on top of the head and on the forearm) make it technically impossible for a monk to disrobe even if he regretted it at a later time of his life, because with such visible objects, he would be the easy target of ridicule and disgust. Nevertheless, such monks do still disrobe. In the Tibetan tradition, though the so-called incarnated enlightened lamas are considered to be born monks, the rate of disrobing among the ordinary Tibetan monks is not surprisingly low (history shows that even born monks i.e. incarnated lamas tend to disrobe). The Monk would like to end this note by emphasizing that there is no any religious crime if a monk decides to disrobe. In fact, it is recommended to disrobe rather than spoiling the monastic order if one were dissatisfied or unable to lead such a noble life. Buddha called disrobing as ‘going back to the lower life’ (family life is lower than a monastic life).
3. Why does a monk shave his head?
The Monk finds this question particularly interesting. Apparently, there is no religious injunction for Islamic Imams and Christian priests to shave their heads, whereas every Buddhist monk is required to shave his head either every fortnight or once a month. Buddhist monks in different Buddhist countries may wear different kinds of robes in different ways but what makes them common is that they all have to shave their heads. The Buddha is said to have used an oft-quoted phrase ‘having shaven the head and beard’ to indicate that a person has been baptized as a monk. His own entrance into monkhood is also marked by his ‘shaving head and beard’. But there is no any sort of official explanation of why a monk has to shave his head and beard. Perhaps, monks forgot or didn’t care at all to ask this question to the Buddha. However, the reasons are not that complicated to figure out why a monk shaves his head and beard (the beauty of Buddhism is that individual explanation can matter a lot in the absence of official explanation). The first assumption is that it was a common practice at the time. Hindu Brahmin priests shaved their heads at the time of their initiation into Brahmin priesthood. Likewise, many other different religious groups at the time shaved their heads to indicate that they have renounced the everyday world. Having been influenced by some common religious designations of the time, the Buddha must have simply followed the same. There was also an exception of hard-line religious people who practiced extreme asceticism which includes not shaving heads and beard for years (it is recorded that Buddha, when not yet enlightened, also practiced such asceticism but soon gave up realizing that that was not the way to enlightenment). But what’s interesting to note here is that during Buddha’s very lifetime, other religious people often ridiculed and verbally abused his monk disciples by calling them ‘bald-headed ascetics’ (used in an offensive way). Does it indicate that only Buddhist monks were bald-headed?
The second explanation is: a monk shaves his head to look ‘not nice’ because he is trying to be detached from attachment. The Monk derived this explanation from a story involving Buddha’s personal (monk) attendant named Ananda and a young girl. Ananda is recorded to have been a very handsome monk who was a heartthrob for many women whenever he went out for public alms collection. This particular young girl apparently fell in love with him and was on a hunger strike telling her mother that Ananda should be brought to her. To cut the story short, one night the mother managed to bring Ananda to their house but when he became aware of the purpose, he quickly escaped to the Buddha. The young girl soon followed him right up to the Buddha where Ananda was trembling for fear of being charged. When Buddha was informed of the happening, He is recorded to have said to the young girl, ‘why do you love my monk! He has no hair…’. By ‘he has no hair’ the Monk understands Buddha as saying Ananda was looking ugly because he was shaven headed. But anyhow, the question remains as to whether one really looks ugly shaven headed. As a matter of fact, the Monk is often told by young girls that monks look more cute with their shining shaven heads! And to add credence to this, nowadays shaving heads also has become a fashion especially because some football stars shave their heads like monks! But more or less, one of the original purposes of shaving the head was to lose beauty.
The Monk derived the third explanation from the point of view of Freudian psychology: monks shave their heads because it makes them look like babies, which then generates maternal instincts for devotees to support the monks thinking that ‘monks are like our children!’
The fourth explanation is when a monk shaves his head, it reminds him of his ‘defilements’ which are like his ‘hairs’ to be got rid of. Indeed, it is a practice not to shave one’s own head but to let another fellow monk shave it so that the monk being shaved can use this occasion to contemplate on the eradication of his defilements and visualize his fellow monk as his spiritual partner.
The fifth explanation is more practical. Why spend so much money and time designing your hairstyle when there are so many other useful businesses left to be done?
Perhaps it is all of the above five explanations why a monk shaves his head. In modern time, you might have met Tibetan and Chinese monks who have long hairs and beard. The reason was explained to the Monk by a Tibetan as ‘these monks are so busy meditating that they have no time to shave their heads and beard’. The Monk personally does not find this explanation appealing. In Thailand, monks are often called ‘calendar’ because monks there shave their heads once a month and when they do, people know it is full moon.
4. What does a monk wear under that long hanging robe?
The Monk is surprised at just how many people are curious to know what exactly a monk wears under his long hanging robe. An American lady who went to Thailand to tutor a group of young monks was surprised to see, for the first time, a monk taking his ringing mobile from inside his hanging robe! Ridiculous enough, sometimes a monk can be mistaken as an Indian lady just by the fact that the robe seems like a sari! The region where Buddhism originated is a tropical region which does not require much clothing. Moreover, in Indian philosophy, it is stated that one needs to discard belongings in order to be in a state of desireless. Hence, religious people tried to disown as many personal belongings as possible, to the extent that some extremist religious people like the Jainist ascetics wore nothing at all. Nakedness was never an option for the Buddha, however. The earliest prescription of clothing for a Buddhist monk was just a sarong-like under robe and the main robe to cover up the entire body which was needed to escape from the bites of mosquitoes, cold and heat, three factors which were common in a forest, a monk’s original home. Monks in tropical countries are still retaining this ancient set of clothing with the addition of an inner shirt covering the left shoulder but revealing the right and a waist belt to tighten up the under robe (underwear is not allowable, rather not prescribed for monks, though wearing underwear is a common practice for modern monks).The robe set of a Tibetan monk is very similar to that of the Theravada monk. What differs is the Tibetan monk’s main robe is shorter and smaller and the shirt covers both the shoulders. A Tibetan monk practically needed to cover both the shoulders because Tibet is the land of snow. Chinese, Korean and Japanese monks also adopted unique sets of robes suiting their respective climatic environments. Their dresses often contain elaborate designs and often a high ranking monk can be recognized by simply looking at his dress code. It is like the star ranking of the military. Generally and holistically, every modern monk wears an inner shirt which contains small pockets. Therefore, you should not wonder if you see a modern monk taking a mobile, an iPod or money from inside his robe.
5. How does a monk resist sexual feelings?
Neither every monk would be asked this question nor would many people ask it. Yet, there are people curious enough to ask this question. Sexuality is strictly forbidden for a monk. Any monk doing so is no more a monk. Not many people can resist sexual temptations and that’s why not many people become monks, so to speak. Someone once told the Monk that when he was twelve years old he became a novice monk but soon disrobed because he couldn’t resist the smell of dinner coming out of the neighboring households (Theravada monks cannot take dinner) and again at the age of twenty he became a monk for the second time but was soon forced to disrobe because he couldn’t resist the sexual feelings he got from seeing beautiful girls. Sex is a biological instinct of a man. Not even a monk of long ascetic practice can honestly deny his urge of sexual feelings. Sexuality is said to be one of the three destructive desires that almost overcame the Buddha at the eve of his final enlightenment. And from his own experience, Buddha did not fail to recognize sexuality as the greatest of all temptations. There are a number of prescribed ways for a monk to resist sexual feelings. The Monk would list only two of them here. The first is a kind of mental meditation called ‘vedana-bhavana’ (meditation on feelings). This requires a monk to carefully watch out one’s feelings (the sexual feelings in this case) that are arising in him; being mindful of them and just allow them to be without giving them any reckless force. It so happens that because of the lack of mindfulness and insight into his feelings, a man becomes slave to them. Hence, a monk is advised to understand and be aware as his feelings give rise. Mindful observation of feelings subdues any negative feelings because feelings are, just any other, in a state of flux: arising and ceasing. Their very nature of arising and ceasing means any feeling can be overcome. What it needs is mindful observation. The second method is also a mental meditation called ‘meditation on impurity’. In case of aroused sexual feelings, a monk meditates on the impurity of a woman’s physical body. This requires the visualization of the woman’s bodily parts according to their original natures. For example, if her eyes turn him on, he would meditate on her eyes and visualize every possible dirty stuff connected to her eyes like tears and dirty stuff that come out from eyes. To take the extreme example would be her private parts. A monk, in case of intensity, would meditate on her private parts and visualize every impurities connected to them like urine and monthlies and so on. This visualization would be well disgusting enough to turn him off.
Masturbation is not allowed for monks. In fact, masturbation is a serious offence a monk can perform which entails congregational confession and probation. Yet, the option of masturbation to release intense sexual feelings is not ruled out by ordinary monks, though this would be denied to outsiders by them for obvious reasons. Medically, off time masturbation is a healthy practice, which is why, when, in the absence of intentional masturbation, one has wet dream it is not an offence for monks.
In the absence of these methods, overpowered by such feelings, a deranged monk can commit sexual misconduct or even rapes – incidents that are not alien to media news.
6. Do hot girls turn a monk on?
The answer to this question is not much different from the answer given above. When Ajahn Brahm, an Australian Theravada monk, went to give a lecture to a girls’ school, in the middle of the lecture, he was apparently asked by a school girl whether hot girls turn him on! Though Ajahn Brahm supposedly avoided answering the question, a simple answer of ‘no’ would not have been appropriate. Why? – simply because Ajahn Brahm is not an arahant (a Buddhist saint who is considered to be devoid of sexual feelings). HH the Dalai Lama, regarded to be a living Buddha, himself admitted in one of his private interviews that beautiful girls do sometimes appear in his dream! Interesting enough, in the later second part of the early Buddhist era, there was a debate suggesting that even such a saint can be tormented by sexual darts (the Monk would not go into this debate here because it is a separate topic). The point here is, yes, hot girls do turn a monk on but how an individual monk would respond to that ‘turn on’ is a complex answer.
7. How does a monk regulate himself under strict disciplinary rules such-as ‘no sex’ and ‘no entertainment’?
Answer not available
8. Can a monk fall in love?
Even during the very lifetime of the Buddha, monks fell in love (even with prostitutes) and through out its history, monks have fallen in love, disrobed and returned to family lives. With modern multifaceted techno-temptations of fashion shows, movies, live concerts and beauty shows, mobiles, TVs, internet and so on ever on the rise, the rate of monks falling in love with girls and women is unimaginably higher than it was in the past. Before monks lived in forests and caves with no potential contacts with the outside world but now monks live in apartments and temples in towns and cities where life is all about temptations and enjoyments. An average modern monk is most likely to have a secret girlfriend in case he decides to disrobe someday. In traditional Buddhist countries, the disrobing rate among highly educated young monks is so alarming that it has been a headache for the senior Buddhist clergy to retain educated, competent and energetic young monks as its members to meet modern demands of competency and efficiency with the fast changing world. In Thailand, in the very recent time, legislative laws were approved by national parliament to punish women more seriously (the guilty monks could get out with light punishment!) if they are caught having affairs with monks. This unfair law, which was of course abated after intense criticism, was an attempt to discourage girls and women from luring monks. In all the Buddhist departments of Sri Lankan universities, 90% of lay professors and lecturers found are disrobed monks. This means it is rare to meet highly educated Sri Lankan monks.
9. What is the thing a monk misses most?
Whatever the answer you may hear from monks, probably ‘sex’ is the thing a monk misses most, though many monks would shy away from telling this truth. This is particularly true among long standing monks. Missing sex of course should not be taken as being slave to sex. This is just a ‘thing’ a monk misses and admitted in response to curious questions posed to monks. Monks don’t miss listening to music, watching TVs, movies and matches because they have them all in their private quarters, albeit it is officially forbidden by the Buddhist Book of Discipline.
10. What is the ambition of a monk?
Theoretically, you should not ask a monk his ambition because ‘ambitionless’ (=enlightenment > a state of no ambitions) is the ambition of a monk! Yet this is probably the most comfortable question a monk is willing to answer. Once, a Korean lay Buddhist was very shocked to know from the Monk that ‘enlightenment’ is not the ‘ambition’ of majority of the modern monks. Historically, it was the decision of the monks who wrote down the Buddhist Scriptures (ca. 1st century before Christ) for the first time in Sri Lanka that scholarship over actual practice should and must be the aim of a monk. Given that historical trend (though many monks are not even aware of this historical decision), you may hear a monk saying that his ambition is ‘to study the Dharma and propagate it for the benefit of many sentient beings’. ‘Practice the Dharma and get enlightened’ is not the ambition of a monk that you would very much like to hear from them. Statistically, becoming a teacher, a professor, a preacher is the only ambition a monk can have. Becoming a soldier, a pilot, a doctor, a politician cannot be ambitions of a monk because they are forbidden. Yet, surprising it may seem, some Sri Lankan monks do sometimes wish to be soldiers (it was in the media?) and in fact, now there is a political party in the Sri Lankan National Parliament consisting only of monks! Hence, theoretically, it is possible for a monk to aim at becoming a President in that country. As a matter of fact, Ven. Soma Thero, a highly influential monk apparently had the agenda of running for the presidential post, one of the main reasons why, it is believed, he was false played and died in Russia, apparently killed by Christians, the so-called enemies of Buddhism in Sri Lanka. Such incidents of monks trying to be heads of state are not uncommon in history. In Japan, by the end of the Nara Period (710 – 793 AD), a powerful Hosso School monk also tried to become an Emperor himself.
It is only in the very recent time that actual practice (i.e. meditation) over academic scholarship is being emphasized particularly in the Southeast Asian countries like Burma and Thailand (Sri Lanka still remains as the hub of academic studies). Hence, now you would meet many monks whose ambition is ‘meditation and becoming a meditation master’. The case of Tibet, China, Korea and Japan is static. The ambition of monks in these countries, to put it simply, is ‘to help sentient beings’ – a parroting echo.
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